Ladies, I'm sure by now that you've heard it all when it comes to pleasing your man: dress up in his favorite teddy to get his attention, or feed him aphrodisiacs to make his manhood rise. Whatever. The truth is there is only one way to please your man…
By pleasing yourself.
I know, this sounds too good to be true, but I assure you that if you are in a relationship with a man that loves you, then there is nothing more important to him than your happiness. So, how do you go about pleasing yourself in a manner that will also please him? That's easy, become your fantasies. And how do you do that? Simple, let go.
Many of you were told as little girls to be conservative and to keep your feminine power in check. That might have worked in the old days, but now, in the new millennium, a different woman is made a Diva every day it seems-the combination of brains and beauty are too much for the world to ignore-and women are finding themselves in more positions of power than ever before.
Speaking of positions, what's your favorite? More importantly, does your man know what it is? If he did, I assure you it would please him to see you in it every time you got the itch.
What's important to understand here is that you no longer have to see desire as a runaway streetcar speeding down a one-way street. What you want does matter, and those erotic episodes that you have dreamed up deserve more than to be tucked away in your imagination. Give them life.
I'm a man and I encourage you all to be bold, be beautiful, be a woman.
