Is It True Love?

Love quizzes, stories, teens can't get enough. "Are you in love?", "Is s/he interested in you?", "Help... I think I'm in love!" - titles come back a lot.

Teens in our days expect a lot of things in their lives and that includes love. Either a real thing or not, don't give up your hopes. Do what is best for you. When you feel that butterflies are in your stomach, you blush when you see that only person. You tend to smile when s/he's around... That's because, certainly, love's around.

Steps to Follow to Recognize Summer Flings From Real Love:

1. Do you regularly see that person? Is it just that you enjoyed seeing that person because s/he is attracting? Or, because s/he is truly nice from the inside and like his/her kind heart? No one wants a perfect apple but that's poisonous inside right?
2. Are you a total friend to that person? Or are you a stranger to her/him? If yes to the second question, make sure that person meets you, know you and all. Get close of you want it to be a real thing...
3. Do you want to know what interests that person and know all about her/him, or do you feel like going out with that person right away?
4. Have you told her/him a big secret? Or you tend to keep little embarrassing situations to yourself?
5. Do you always try to talk to her/him and make her/him laugh? Or, just hang there and have nothing to say?

Think about these points. If your answers are always yes to the first posed questions, then it might be a real thing. If it's yes on the second question for each point, it might be just a fling.

So, let's point out the points that characterize:

The Real Thing:

1. You regularly see that person and find her/him attracting from the inside
2. You a total friend to that person.
3. You want to know what interests that person and know all about her/him.
4. You have told her/him a big secret.
5. You always try to talk to her/him and make her/him laugh.

The Summer Fling:

1. You enjoy seeing that person because s/he is attracting from the outside.
2. You are almost a stranger to her/him.
3. You felt like going out with that person right away.
4. You tend to keep little embarrassing situations to yourself.
5. You sometimes just hang there and have nothing to say.

Now you know what those butterflies are there for!

A Little More Information for Curious People:

You still don't get what summer flings are different from true love? Don't worry; I have the definition down here:

Summer flings are not meant to last long and forever. It is important to know because when we see that there's this amazing person that you've met on your trip to Cuba but soon, you'll be heading back home, even if you had an amazing time together, it won't last long. That's the little flirty part of love.

On the other hand, true love is really true. I reached down deep in your heart and it risks staying there for a long while. You don't get rid of true love that easy and you tend to stick with it. After reading this article and realizing that you are living true love, show some affection to the person you really love.

Many teens are afraid that the other one is going to reject them, and it's normal, but trust me, not many people will reject anyone rudely. If it does happen, then that person isn't worth being love by others. Think about that and you'll know its logic.

Hope this article helped! And good luck with your little red cheeks and enjoy life how it's made for each of us!