1. You and your guy argue:
- (A) At least twice a week, usually about something petty and we make up shortly after.
- (B) At least once a day, usually resulting in a screaming match and one of you threatening to leave.
- (C) Rarely, usually over something huge but we make up.
- (D) Never
2. Overall, your guy's friends:
- (A) Drive you insane and you dread spending time with them.
- (B) Make you blush, they are all so hot.
- (C) Are alright and you don't mind spending time with them occasionally
- (D) What friends?
3. Your guy and your friends:
- (A) Get along great and enjoy each others company.
- (B) Flirt with each other a little too much.
- (C) Are mean to each other.
- (D) Ignore each other.
4. When he first gets home from work he:
- (A) Makes a sandwich.
- (B) Walks over and gives you a hug or kiss.
- (C) Gets ready to go see his friends.
- (D) Asks how your day was, turns on the TV, and retreats to the couch.
5. Your sex life is:
- (A) Not quite wild, but satisfying and frequent.
- (B) Exciting, wild, and very frequent.
- (C) Okay and not very often.
- (D) What sex life?
6. At the end of the day you:
- (A) Wonder if there is something different, something better out there for you.
- (B) Feel mostly content with your relationship.
- (C) Feel troubled and burdened with your relationship.
- (D) Feel content and satisfied with your relationship.
7. When it comes to money:
- (A) You don't want to talk about it.
- (B) You find the two of you arguing about money whenever bills are due.
- (C). You worry about your bills, he worries about his.
- (D) You both have agreed and one of you handles the finances.
8. When it comes to family:
- (A) He is close to his and values family.
- (B) He would love to start his own.
- (C) He doesn't speak to his own family.
- (D) He only visits on holidays and birthdays.
Scoring:
1. A-4, B-1, C-3, D-2
2. A-2, B-3, C-4, D-1
3. A-4, B-1, C-2, D-1
4. A-2, B-4, C-2, D-3
5. A-3, B-4, C-2, D-1
6. A-2, B-3, C-1, D-4
7. A-1, B-2, C-3, D-4
8. A-4, B-3, C-1, D-2
Rock Solid: 24+ Points
Your relationship is built on a solid foundation. Although, like all relationships, it has its minor flaws, overall both of you are happy and content. This relationship is worth holding on to and finding solutions to any issues that may come up. You have accomplished a level in your relationship that most relationships cannot.
Needs Improvement: 16-23 Points
Your relationship needs some improvement but it is no where near hopeless. You and your guy need to work out the issues that plague the two of you. With some time and compromise, your relationship can become rock solid.
Crumbling: 8-15 Points
Your relationship has some major issues that the two of you will have to work on soon or decide to go your own separate ways. Many of these problems can be unhealthy and should be faced. With a lot of time, effort, and compromise, you could salvage this relationship.
