Another great thing is, get to know their friends. Talk to their friends ONLY if they happen to be there. Don't go snooping around and check his email to see if they did anything wrong. It will make him think less of you. And don't talk to his friends if he is not there, it will seem that YOU are trying to cheat on him. Say, for example, you call on his cell and he's out with his friends; ask him if you can talk to him for awhile because you won't call unless you miss him terribly. Then ask who he is with. And if he says he's with his friends, JOKINGLY ask if he is not on a date with a beautiful girl. If he has nothing to hide, he will ask his friends to say hello to you. And, this is a very delicate step; ask him, if you can talk to his friends. Make sure you don't spend more than a minute talking to them. Ask for their name, ask how they are and JOKINGLY remind them to take care of each other and lastly to have fun. This is the very first step. Don't scare them off by grilling them; this will only make YOU look bad. Slowly build up confidence in your partner and make his friends see that you are a great and wonderful woman that automatically, they will not let him cheat on you (unless they are just bad company). Make them your allies to be your eyes and ears then you won't have to be overly worked up about whether he's cheating on you. But don't call them and ask if your partner is cheating on you. That will just waste all your efforts to get on your side. If anything amiss is happening, they will tell you.
Just remember to TALK and LISTEN to each other. The hardest moments are when you're alone and missing the one you love. Be there for one another. Tell them how you feel and what you need from them. Be sure to show them that you love them and not just say it. Make sure YOU don't cheat on YOUR loved one. Till next time, keep the love burning bright and let it be your guiding light.
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