Finding your outer beauty will turn on your inner glow. When you know and love who you really are, you will be more than beautiful. You will emit radiance which is female sexual magnetism at it most potent. Do you want to draw men to you and make them desire you? Or do you want to please the man you currently have? Here are some areas that you can work on to help improve not only your self but also make your man feel adored. Love yourself and your man will follow. Keeping your man interested will make him want to be your love slave.
Radiate Beauty
Always look and smell good. Accent your personal charismatic assets. Surround your man with luxury and beauty. Flowers, candlelight, aromas, music, and velvety textures are good ways to do this. Cook him good food and serve it at a romantic setting. Read him love poetry. My boyfriend enjoys having love poetry read to him. He says its less vulgar and more romantic than watching a porn to get him turned on.
Cover your bed with rose petals and roll around in them together. The aroma will linger for hours. You can also float them in a warm tub of water and jump in together for a nice soak. The power of certain aromas can really make your man weak in the knees. Make sure to read up on aromas like vanilla and lavender. I have also heard that pumpkin is a good one also.
Flaunt the beauty of your erogenous zones. If you aren't sure where they are just think of all the places your man can touch you that makes you feel good. Cleavage, behind the knees, and of course the obvious ones are all good places to draw his attention. Be creative with this. The more creative you are the more your man will be attracted to those areas.
Be a Tease
Experiment with your words, eyes, and senses of style to find your own unique feminine nature.
Eye contact can be a killer. When trying to pick up a man in public with your girlfriends eye contact is first on the list. Look right into his eyes and become almost glued to them. When I do this I always think about passion and what I want to do to him because then my eyes become smoldering. You want to kind of subtly nod your head and run your tongue over your lips. Just be flirty but you only want to draw his attention not everyone in the place. Keep it simple. Then get up and leave but linger with the eye contact as you walk away. You can just go to the ladies room or leave the place altogether. You'll have him trembling in no time. If I am going to leave the place altogether I always go to a place where the waiter or bartender know me so that the guy can get my number if he asks around.
Eye contact is even sexy when you are in a relationship. I know when I am at dinner with my boyfriend whenever there is a silent moment I focus on his eyes. I try to send him wordless messages about what I want to do later. Trust me this always works, then about the time he wants to play footsie under the table I excuse myself to the ladies room.
Special Moves
A man falls in love with a woman because of how she makes him feel about himself. Make him feel special enough and he will turn into your love slave. Compliment him both in bed and out of bed. I always start right away in the morning. I watch him sleeping and then slowly wake him up with a few subtle touches or strokes telling him how beautiful he is and how much I love every part of his body. Then through out the day I text him little sexy messages about how much he means to me and how sexy he is. At night I praise him on his hardness and size. I always stroke his ego and tell him all the ways that he drives me crazy both sexually and non-sexually.
Bonding without sex is very important to keep the intimacy alive. Explore until you find something that creates a special bond between you two that only means something to you two. Every man has an emotional hot spot that makes him feel adored and manly. Whether it is something physical or emotional it is very important to find this connection.
Love him in his entirety. Treat his whole body like a mouth-watering piece of chocolate. Find out what makes him hot and then focus on that area. Determine the one thing about him that lights your fire and then dote on it. He'll be entranced by your adoration and you will become irresistible to him.
I recommend trying to become fully comfortable with yourself as a woman. The more comfortable you are the more appealing you will be to your man. Start by celebrating your beauty and embracing all of your strengths and weaknesses. The more you love yourself, the more he will love you. The more your inner glow is shone the more female sexual magnetism you will have for not only your man but any man.
