Seldom talked about, but clearly understood, there is a big
difference in being a “boyfriend” or the man in a girl's life.
Is this matter of status a matter of the heart or of a specific behavior.
Most any guy you meet, and take an interest in, can be a boyfriend. But not all guys are capable of becoming “the man in your life.” Some guys become boyfriends right away. Others take longer. Most never learn the subtle nuances that would move them into position to be “the man in a girl's life.” They learn to become boyfriends, husbands or lovers--instead.
What's the difference? Well…
- Boyfriends tell funny jokes. Your man laughs at your jokes.
- Boyfriends wear new three-piece suits. Your man looks cool in his jeans, t-shirt and tennis shoes.
- Boyfriends drive expensive cars, with GPS systems, stereo sounds and sunroofs. Your man lets you drive his car.
- Boyfriends are good at playing Bid Whiz, Spades and Gin Rummey. You man plays cards too; with you and your mother.
- Boyfriends take you out to expensive restaurants for early morning breakfasts. Your man can cook and does.
- Boyfriends send you bouquets of your favorite flowers. You man picks you dandelion bouquets in the park with everybody watching.
- Boyfriends have elaborate stereo component sets. Your man shows you how to work his.
- Boyfriends call to ask you how was church on Sunday. Your man goes with you.
- Boyfriends like to call you “Hey, Buddy.” Cute. But, your man is always showing you ways that confirm he's your best friend.
- Boyfriends are very special people; but your man makes you feel that you are, too.
