With the vast expansion of the internet one has all the information about a subject one wants to know about...and it has its bad as well as good effects. One of the bad effects is that a person may know about things for which he/she may not be mature enough either mentally or physically. And one of the most frequent of these subjects is that of physical intimacy between two persons who are engaged in a relationship.
A relationship between two persons is a new avenue for both the persons and one needs to explore one's compatibility with the partner before venturing into a permanent relationship. Love is the primary, fundamental building block in every relationship. Without love a relationship cannot withstand the test of time. love in its purest form is a divine expression,a source of unbounding joy and pleasure for the person experiencing it...more so if it be for the first time. But let's not confuse love as an emotion and love as a means of physical intimacy. Love is self-aware in its primal, unified, unlimited, infinite state, it knows nothing other than unity, perfection, completion, wholeness.
Love between two persons cannot develop overnight...for this they have to know each other, understand each other and be emotionally attached with each other.A true test of love is not in bliss but in a time of crisis when one needs the support of ones partner the most..it is only through crisis that one can suddenly discover the emotional and mental chord that one shares with one's partner. And only when you and your partner can resonate in unison will your search for your true love end. Then you will complete your search for a soul mate.
A relationship is always based on emotional and mental harmony and synchronization. Only when one can achieve the correct symphony can one delve into the world of desires and physical intimacy to quench your thirst for passion. A passionate one night stand can be based on the heat of the moment or as an infatuation on the person. It does not guarantee a happy relationship in most cases. Physical intimacy can strengthen your relationship but not build it.