It makes little difference if you have been with your partner for a week or decades we all want to bring a little extra passion and heat into events every now and again. Managing that extra sparkle without getting it badly wrong - we've all turned up dressed in a latex gimp suit when we shouldn't have, right! - is always a worry.
Follow these five simple steps and you can start to put a little excitement into your routine!
We All Like a Present
This one is strictly for the guys. Everyone has heard of wrapping yourself up like a gift, but this is a new spin. Wrap a condom on your manhood and put a vibrating ring rather than a ribbon on. Fun, frisky and just a little risqué this can be a great opener into the world of sex toys for a new couple/ Too Cool for School
Your body responds to all sorts of stimulations and we always associate sex and heat. For a different twist though blindfold your lover, take an ice cube in your mouth and rub it all over their body. The extremes of the cold and your hot hands and breath will drive them wild. Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down
Want to get kinky with a new partner but not sure how they'll respond? Hold them down, grab their wrists and restrain them (gently!). If they enjoy it then you can move gently on to lightly binding them with stockings and from there only your imagination can be the limit in your role playing games. The Food of Love
Often a couple can settle into a bit of a routine. You can want to spice it up but maybe you don't like the idea of going to a sex shop? Perhaps you don't want to shop for toys online? Well then raid your kitchen - food and sex have always been linked. There are all sorts of slippery, sticky, warm or cold items in your refrigerator or cupboards that you can incorporate into your play and get those juices flowing. Make Your Own
You don't have to buy your toys either! For example you could take a condom and fill it with water. Then put it in the freezer overnight, hey presto a tingly ice dildo all ready for fun and frolics… Look around you and you'll see all sorts of things that a devious mind can twist to new and inventive purposes!
So have fun and stay safe!
