The Abuser
The abuser may come into your life like a heavenly body or monarch, but when the abuse comes, it comes. The abuser usually finds any or every reason to hit you. It may be conveyed to the victim that he or she has done something to deserve the abuse. There is no hesitancy in my mind that it first starts inside of the abuser. The abuser pledges that his or her ways will shift and is always sorry. The abuser, much as if the alcoholic may use many curse words. These words are used to ridicule or demote ones self-esteem. You alone cannot change the abuser. Pushing, fingers in ones face, a little smack, yelling scratching are all forms of abuse.
The Giver
The giver spends most of his or her time as a philanthropist. He or she will buy things without you having to ask. The giver feels a need to help and often helps everyone from friends, family, and even strangers. Because of his or her generous heart, many use the giver. I believe that at some point the giver realizes that he or she cannot help everyone, and may dedicate his or her money to a cause, charity or other organization.
The giver in my opinion is an emotional creature who acts on his or her own thoughtfulness of "what if I needed help, or I remember when I." If you should meet a giver and presuppose that he or she is only going to help you, you are wrong!
The Complainer
The complainer most often has many issues with the world, He or she seems to be in one of those catch 22 situations, "whatever can go wrong, will go wrong" The complainer seems to wake up daily with a problem, from body aches to household issues. I have found that living with or being in the presence of a compulsive complainer, may have negative effects, which may wear on your own mind.
The complainer spends lots of time writing letters, making phone calls and looking for all the things that are wrong with the world. Many people tend to seek the advice of the complainer because he or she will know who to call for help in a time of need.
The Good Book Reader
The good book reader may read the Koran, the Bible, or some other framework of “good book” Unfortunately he or she may not always live by it. He or she may know innumerable bible or book verses and tend to use it to his or her gratifications. They may not live Godly lifestyles and use the GOOD BOOK, as the means of defense. You may find that good book reader not reading at all, and quoting the same scripture repeatedly.
I hope that you have enjoyed my thesis of the personality type.
