What is normal sex? What is the meaning of sexual indulgence, love and passion to the general public? Do most of us really know what it is they want or need, or are getting themselves involved in and why when it comes to sex? Different strokes for different folks? Is there a possibility that some people just have stronger sexual appetites than others do, or is it perversion?
Pornography exploits real women and men who attach sex to love and marriage, intimacy and spirituality. However, there are a lot of people who are sexually obsessed, perhaps because of a hollow life, so they tend to focus on and indulge in sex and pornography more than working to have a committed and stable, civil and moral life. But it also has to do with a person s own moral values and beliefs that are their guides. Certainly, the sexually obsessed are a different story group.
We cannot control the minds of those running amok in pornography businesses particularly since females are running just as fast pro-pornography as the males. And although it s one s personal choice on how they choose to live, there is a fine line that separates what is and what is not acceptable. If he wants to entertain himself at a topless bar, get drunk, act foolish, watch pornography and sleazy strip performances and movies, it s his choice. He probably can only get such a charge from looking at naked females.
Public display of immoral conduct is unacceptable, and it is society s right to intrude when sexual behaviors conflict with a moral society. Pornography promotes crime, social psychopaths, depresses property values, demoralizes communities and contributes to urban disease, decay and prostitution.
Society has become accustomed to the sexual misconduct of most guys. We don't expect much else from them. But years past, several handfuls of females have elected to join the pornography business and then claim that violence in pornography violates women s civil rights, the limelight and the advocates ready to protect them. How can they choose a degrading lifestyle and expect respect and protection from jobs they know often run into violence?
This vicious circle continues to worsen because females self-destruct and destroy their seif respect through pornography. Yet, instead of favoring self-esteem, they keep themselves locked in a position of lesser value. Females who contribute to the promotion of pornography do so by buying into the ill thinking that pornography is a healthy expression of human sensuality. Pornography has nothing to do with love, intimacy nor emotional attachment. Pornography exists only for sex.
It s no wonder that people who possess dignity and respect is tired of listening to those who create their circumstances and shout out what is unconstitutional. They stroke their perverted egos with pornography as much as the males who need pornography to obtain an erection and then they expect respect? Folks of this sort will never make a mental switch from their lifestyles to moral, respectable encounters with real women and men once they get caught up the sleaze.
Andrea Dworkin had long ago stated that, in pornography, fist and penis are joined to keep women quiet. For years, without success, her goal had been to get females out of pornography and prostitution. Andrea's statement brings to mind the recent story of Tang Shengli, 23, who thought she was applying for a waitress job but, instead found herself at the End of the World Nightclub, where her boss, Hu Shuiyuan, forced her to watch sexy films to prepare her for a life as a prostitute. (The Philadelphia Inquirer, January 11, 1998) Locked up and guarded, Tang leapt from a second-story balcony, declaring, I'd rather die than be a prostitute.
When females wallow in pornography and prostitution, they choose to join the sleaziest bars and strip nightclubs, or to pose for a page or film. They exploit and demoralize, violate their rights and tolerate sexual violence the moment they decide to step through the doors leading to corruption. Not for a moment do they consider the consequences of their actions against real women and men. They consider only what it is they desire and expect sympathy while they play in an environment hazardous to their mental, physical and spiritual well being. To ignore this is to ignore reality.
You must lack morals to want to strip. But you lack much more if you want to prostitute or perform in pornography. (Sally Jessy Raphael)
We must understand the truth about pornography. That pornography can have no power over anyone that does not choose to give it. That it hurts women and men who understand that pornography is indecent, derogatory and demoralizing.
Without criticism, most guys have the mental and emotional maturity of 16 years old anytime pornography appeals to their feelings of having power over the opposite sex. They never mature mentally or emotionally. They stay there, because boys are easily influenced. They become addicted to false images. They must be pitied for their weakness, not feared for any imagined power they think they have been gawking at naked females they use to masturbate. However, this is the state of immaturity and mental corruption crucial to the pornography industry. So that there can be no doubt that females in pornography are perverted and corrupt and through the years have competed with males immorality. They are as deranged and sadomasochistic as their ruthless pimps. They lack morals, are on drugs and in poor health. So future wannabe prostitutes and pornography stars ought to consider carefully what they are getting themselves involved in before they submit to a world of corruption.
