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The Profile of a Cheater

So many men and women are "blinded" by love. Many know that their significant other is not being faithful, but they refuse to accept it. I have comprised a list of "red flags' for those who won't accept the obvious.

He/She never answers their phone when they're around you.

His/Her phone is always ringing when you're together.

He/She will receive text messages and they will wait to respond when they think you're not looking.

He/She will disappear for days at a time and not offer any reason for their ghost-like behavior.

He/She always offers up more information than asked. This tactic is done in order to hide their whereabouts.

He/She will always claim to call you, but they don't do so until days later.

He/She will always change their story.

His/Her excuse for not spending time with you is always the same response. “I'm busy”.

He/She will spend ample amounts of time with you one weekend-only to make you feel special-and then disappear for the next couple of weeks.

He/She becomes very defensive when you ask them miniscule questions that should cause little to no reaction.

He/She speaks openly about their friends of the opposite sex, but you never get to meet them.

He/She spends an unwarranted amount of time on sites like MySpace and Facebook, or maybe even the computer in general.

He/She picks fights with you in order to justify the time they spend away from you or don't talk to you.

He/She will normally accuse you of infidelity before you can accuse him/her.

He/She often has to attend trips or functions alone.

He/She says they're just going to take a shower (or do a small task in general) and call you back in a few minutes, but those few minutes turn into hours or even days.

He/She will take you some place and take pictures of you, but they will never let you get your hands on those pictures. Why? They fear who you might show those pictures to.

He/She is very secretive or sneaky. They will always claim to be doing something or about to do something and it turns out not to be the case.

He/She always talks about past relationships or sexual partners.

He/She will always say “I love you” to get out of trouble instead of talking about an issue.

He/She has various accounts (MySpace, Facebook, Hi5 etc) and they don't tell you about them.

Overall, there are always signs. Some people just choose not to see what is right in front of their face. There's no such thing as a woman's intuition, instead it is called common sense. If your significant other is doing one of these things, then there's no need to be alarmed. However, if there are five or six things on this list that they do constantly, then don't be surprised when their infidelity is finally revealed. People only get away with what you allow them to do.

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