Don't start screaming that you don't make mistakes with new relationships; I myself am a woman and admit I make some of these mistakes I am about to list. Some of these we can control with a little self restraint, others may be harder to do so let's get the ball rolling.
Being too clingy and needy, now come on this is one of the most common mistakes us women will make when in a relationship. For example when your new man goes for a night out with his mates to a pub or to a football game, you constantly ring him every 15 minutes or every half hour just to hear his voice or even check up on him. We know we shouldn't do it but we do it anyway to make ourselves feel better that we know exactly where he is and exactly what he is doing. This I believe is more of a confidence issue and can be resolved, by just showing a little self restraint. If not your new boyfriend will soon get tired of your nagging and just switch his phone off or worse…..be tempted to go with another women.
Marking our territory by plastering his flat or house with all your stuff, including the bathroom which will be filled with our time of the month equipment. Men hate this when in a new relationship it makes them feel….well just plain scared that things are moving too fast and if it has only been a few weeks then he has a right to feel worried. It's perfectly normal to stay over at each others houses for the night or the weekend, but when you start adjusting items in his house like putting the playstation away or tidying his house he will soon be running a mile. All of us like breathing space and men are no different, so before you start taking over his property just ask if he is comfortable with it first.
Now mood swings are something which can be totally out of our hands, some days we feel on top of the world and others we just want to murder him for not putting the lid down on the toilet seat. Sometimes it is unavoidable that we will end up in a confrontation with our partners, but maybe we can take steps to make it less painful. If you feel your blood start to boil just take a walk to cool down, or go to the gym to work it off. This way you will avoid arguments over something stupid and possibly get fit at the same time.
