Many men always wonder how some guys always have the ladies attention. They simple show up and ladies crawl all over them. There calm, relaxed, and confident and the ladies love umm. If you're not gifted with incredibly good looks there's still hope. By following these simple guidelines you too can be the guy that all the other men admire.
Don't fly solo
If attending a party or bar nothing looks worse then the guy in the corner by himself. Women want to see a man that is well accepted by others. Having a crowd of people laughing and trying to get your attention is a must. If you're with a buddy taking on and conquering a small circle is a lot easier with a wingman.
Always dress to impress, but never over do it
You're not attending a wedding dress as if you already have a girl. Nothing is more attractive to a female than something they can't have.
Never open a conversation with your name
It leads nowhere.
Start with something surrounding a stupid drunk, a song, a class, make it relevant. Then quickly include her into your group. Showing her how well liked you are by others.
Then continue with your group forcing the female to nag for your attention. Do not complete ignore the lady or she may walk off in boredom or pissed off. Keep her involved but make sure your main focus is your group that you and your buddy are completely dominating.
Don't be controlling, be fun and loose
You will know if the lady is digging you by her attention span. If she can't wait any longer to talk to you and is all over you for your attention your gold. If not, time to open with another female but wait a few you don't want to come across as a player, females pick up on players quick. Repeat the same steps and remain confident.
After attending the same party, club, or bar several times you will quickly pick up friends making your circle stronger and more fun attracting even more females. The secret is making sure the female sees how well received you are.
