What makes a true courtier, whether a gentleman or a lady? Castiligone, in his book The Courtier , illustrates what he thinks is the ideal noble. He not only lists what he thinks is the ideal lady, but also, what he thinks is the ideal gentleman. Many of Castiligone's noble ideas are commendable, however, there is still a little room for debate.
For his ideal gentleman at court, Castiligone has a unique list of qualities. His gentleman should be courteous. This is a very important quality that shows others politeness and respect, which are both vital for good human relations. Another aspect of manhood that Castiligone lists is chivalry, being gallent toward woman. In this list, it is quite good that chivalry is there, because it too is very important. One more, of the many aspects listed by Castiligone, is that a courtier should be courageous and brave. This is also good, because no one would want to have a useless wimp hanging around. Another virtue to add to Castiligone's list would be for a courtier to know how to dance well.
Castiligone also had quite an extensive list for his ideal lady at court. One of the things he listed was that a lady should be classically educated and consequently know how to dance well. He also mentioned that woman should aviod manly things, such as handling weapons, hunting and riding, but rather that a woman should do womaly things, such as be able to manage a house and its affairs. One more quality, Castiligone listed for a lady at court to have, is for her to be magnanimous. Castiligone's list for a good lady is so complete that there would not be anythings else to add to make it more complete.
What makes a true courtier, whether a gentleman or a lady? Castiligone, in his book The Courtier , illustrates what he thinks is the ideal noble. He not only lists what he thinks is the ideal lady, but also, what he thinks is the ideal gentleman. If anyone wants to be a perfect noble, then he should conform himself to Castiligone's list of a perfect courtier.
