I feel so comfortable being myself with partner like I can be as open and honest with him as possible n he wont judge me or put me down for my flaws n mistakes... there’s no point in hiding behind this fake representive of yourself, its better to be your self ... if you are not yourself with someone then its not real love coz how can they love someone that doesn’t exist n u mustn’t love them an awful lot either if you are basically lying to them.
I think there’s someone out there for everyone but its not like its just one person though, its like, there’s lots of people out there who would be great for you, but its up to the both of u to make it work, coz it don’t just happen by itself.
If for some reason it fails, then u just try again with someone else, coz true love is about choosing one person and making it work with that person, mismatched people get together all the time and make a relationship work through the arguments, coz they work at it together.., I don’t think there’s such thing as being wrong or right for each other,
If you care enough u make it work, simple as really.
If it doesn’t work out, maybe deep down u didn’t want it to..
Even if you do argue though, perhaps arguing is a sign of a good healthy relationship.. maybe by caring enough to argue about the relationship it shows you want the relationship to exist, instead of just letting it fade out...... because you love each other and you want your relationship to last as long as possible!
Jealousy can also be a tricky topic.
If your partner gets jealous, doesn't that just mean they love you so much, they want you with every single bit of themselves.. And they're being protective of you because they’re scared of losing something so important to them? And doesn't THAT just mean they think you're amazing and wonderful, and you could have anyone you ever want..
Jealousy and arguments within a relationship are not always a bad thing..
The next time you and your partner get into a squabble, just think... they chose you to be the one to work at a relationship with... they chose you to not give up on.... they chose you to love no matter what and all they want is for you to love them too!
