Meeting the right person can be challenging this day and age. At first things seem to go well. You enjoy each other's company and nothing else matters other than you wanting to spend more time with that person. You start hoping love has found its way, and then you get hit with. “I need a bit of space.” “I find I don't share the same goals you do.” I don't like nor want children.” So many things run through your mind at this moment and you blame yourself for falling for someone who only told you what you wanted to hear to get you to put your guard down. Trust is lost, and you try to forget it, but the words keep taunting you. “Where did I go wrong?” You ask, only theirs no response.
You tend to put off meeting other people, yet don't want to face being alone anymore. You want the intimacy only two people in love can share, and you crave it. Again trust is lost so your guard is once again up. You now focus on the negative and forget about the positive. In life you meet and choose to be with someone that may or may not be for you.
No relationship is guaranteed. Communication is key when starting anew. Don't rush it. Take time to know the one you're with and analyze all that's said and done in the beginning. To trust again takes time as well. The doubts are already embedded in your mind and your heart still aches over being hurt, but love is real and can be obtained.
Never give up on finding true bliss and everlasting fulfillment. Stay true to yourself first and then true to the one who will eventually obtain your love and relish it. No one deserves to take that desire of hope away from you. To hope is to live, to live is to love and to trust is to gain.
Randy