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Venus Between the Sheets - Love, Sex and Relationships.

Some notes on Love and Relationships relating to Venus positions. Discover the pros and cons of all positions and some advice on how to use them for personal benefit. Co-written by Wilma Proops.

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I’m writing this with the permission of my client of five years who I am using for the following case study. The article also looks at Venus in all natal charts. Venus is very much to do with love and sex so I’ve always enjoyed gathering information about natives relevant to this position – I do enjoy discussing people’s scandals!

The position of Venus speaks about how we love – emotionally, physically, mentally and practically. Venus rules Taurus and Libra and this position can be a blessing . . . eventually, if the natives learn its lesson. The problem is these people, particularly the child in love (Venus in Taurus), have so much love to give – emotionally, physically, mentally and practically that some people (usually men in my experience) take savage advantage of it. This position is therefore associated with men and women who become “doormat partners” – the one’s that do everything – cook, clean, parent, earn, build, organise, etceteras - for no reward or any appreciation. In addition to this lack of reward and appreciation these natives (my studies have revealed) are often victims of domestic violence.

Take heart if you have Venus in Taurus. Once you learn your lesson and leave it behind or see the problem before it happens, you will have the knowledge of how to love – emotionally, physically, mentally and practically – including how to love yourself. You will be able to channel this knowledge into a really worthwhile life. Witness my client of five years.

Venus in Taurus natives understand and enjoy deep emotional love. For them it is never fleeting and can be sustained throughout a lifetime. They feel emotional love in waves when they recall all those who they love. How do they do this? It seems they have places somewhere in their hearts or minds, dedicated to all those they love. Their parents, children and siblings; friends, colleagues, associates, all have their place and none is ever neglected. They soon realise (unless something else in their chart conflicts this) that love is the way they care for people and treat them with respect. They have a practical approach to loving too. This can be anything from helping their children with homework to always being polite and appreciative of their bus driver – pleases and thank yous are sincere and never forgotten. They really enjoy sex with a monogamous long term partner – in bed they probably enjoy giving more than receiving.

Venus is the most beautiful planet in the sky in my opinion. My client’s eyes lit up when she recalled reciting “Twinkle, twinkle little star . . ." to the glittering night’s skyscape when she was a child. Seeing such joy is a wonderful perk in my job, particularly seeing it where once events and circumstances had conspired to banish it - but I digress. Below I have listed some key words and phrases I have come to associate with each Venus position from Aries to Pisces. I hope they will be of help to you in analysing yourself and others.

Please note: It is possible to find your Venus position, and that of your friends and associates, on most good astrology websites.

Venus in Aries

The energetic lover! I’d think the character Casanova has this position. Whether the native will be able to cope with this position is dependent on other elements of the natal chart. Sometimes they actually become bored of sex – no matter its quality. These natives need to learn to respect themselves and their sexual partners or it ca be problematic for them and many around them. If they do this they are equipped well to succeed in relationships. They actually enjoy being monogamous. If both partners shared the same Venus this would be an excellent basis for a long term, rewarding marriage.

Venus in Taurus

See my article above. Loyal, trustworthy, joyous, understanding, never neglectful of all the people they love. Capable of giving the best sex in the Milky Way!

Venus in Gemini

Love, hate relationships. These natives need to learn how not to take it out on the people they love, yet stay perfectly courteous to those they don’t even know. I’d say this position bestows beautiful faces and – if nothing conflicts in the chart which leads to overeating or under exercise – beautiful bodies too.

Venus in Cancer

Tearful lovers. You’ll notice they cry more often and more in depth at slushy, sad movies and will feel the need for such entertainment more often than other Venus positions. They really enjoy emotional love and it is great when they find a partner appreciative of their deep felt emotional love. In sex they tend to be passive and need their partner to make the first move. I’d say this position could either work really well or not take off at all in matters relating to relationships. For instance, this position with a partner with Aquarius Sun could be brilliant but it would be very unlikely.

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#1 by Sasha, Aug 4, 2007
I think you have described the venus in taurus perfectly!! It's both a blessing and a curse!
#2 by Theodore Parker Bowles, Feb 11, 2008
I understand that Wilma Proops runs the ONLY Comedy Problem Page in the world - I don't recall the exact location but if you google her there are plenty of references
#3 by Samuel L Jackson, Mar 22, 2008
Hey Dudes, this AndAnotherThing sure knows a thing or two! I'm reading all her stuff. My Hollywood buddies are all impressed with my new topics of conversation - hell, I'll have to tell them I get it all from the pen (or is it pens?) of AndAnotherThing. Keep up the writing AndAnotherThing - I don't want to run out of new and interesting things to talk about.
#4 by Clementine St John Williams de Rudey, Mar 26, 2008
I must admit that my husband (God love him) has a Leo Venus! Have you, by any chance, met him? I wouldn't be surprised both Wilma Proops and Gilbert (my husband) are notorious Mayfair bar lushes. Don't you just love them both? XX Clem
#5 by Charlie Venu, Upshot Industries, Tavistock, England, Jun 3, 2008
My organisation used to employ Wilma Proops as a recruitment consultant. She produced natal charts of all applicants and selected the candidate most suitable to the profile we required. Of the 18 key members of staff we now employ 12 have been with the company for more than 5 years and all of these were taken on upon the advice of Wilma Proops. The woman is a genius!
#6 by Maggie Thatcher, Jun 17, 2008
My dear lady - you should stop writing such alarming material at once. The internet is an uncontrollable tool, a tool which should be removed from the prolls at all costs! Long may democracy (after the Greek model) reign!
#7 by Julie Prim, Jul 3, 2008
Way to go! Excellent article.
#8 by Jan Spalding, Jul 5, 2008
My Venus is in Aries and I cab confirm I'm an energetic lover. I wear all my men out (and that's putting it very politely)
#9 by jane, falmouth, Jul 7, 2008
utter rubbish
#10 by Wilma Proops, Dec 29, 2008
Dear Jane in Falmouth,

Jane - I was most upset that you felt you should leave the comment above. Today, while mulling over this article and deciding on modifications (in light of my most recent research and findings) it crossed my mind that you were actually a disgruntled client. Indeed, upon looking at my clients and consulations for July 2008 I cam across some correspondence with a Rebecca of Falmouth. I now utterly believe that this Rebecca is you and, although I wouldn't sink to your method I can understand its motivation.

Get over it Jane/Rebecca - I was right to point out your shortcomings (as suggested by your chart). The idea is that you reflect in these and make any changes to accomodate them.

Yours utterly truly
Wilma Proops
Agony Aunt to the Stars

#11 by Al, Feb 9, 2009
I agree with Jane Foulmouth, this is sort of rubbish, although I guess I don't totally agree with her since I don't believe it's utter rubbish, just sort of rubbish.

I can assure you I am no past client, I do not even reside in the States, however I have in the past year or two become delightfully curious in astrology. I have read plenty of venus sign explanations. My venus is in Leo and the explanation you provided lends most of itself to the practice of mooning. What the hell is that? Although it made me laugh a little, it gave me no insight into myself or the way the planets affect me whatsoever.

And Also, I would be willing to bet that you or someone you are dear to is a Taurus venus given the beaming description of it. Try balancing your descriptions out with positive and negative aspects for each sign. Then the rest of us won't feel so bad.
#12 by Wilma Proops Replies, Mar 2, 2009
Mooning is the sport of baring one's arse in public places. I do not have my Venus in Taurus. Venus rules Taurus and Libra so it stands to reason she is going to feel at home in either.

These Astrology articles are supposed to make you laugh (particularly references to Uranus) and provoke comment. I stand by my assertions about those with Leo in Venus but accept that other plantetary positions might weaken (or strengthen) tendencies.

Thank you for your comment
Wilma Proops
writing from Liverpool
#13 by Graham Berks, Mar 3, 2009
10/10 Ms Proops - thanks
#14 by Venus in Pisces, Apr 3, 2009
I can appreciate the work that went into this but it is rubbish. The generalizations are comical and do not really provide insight into love, sex, and relationships.

I am venus in pisces and found most of the statements false.

You are just stating your opinions and giving advice. \"They need to realize this, this is sad, etc.\"
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