Recently, I asked my husband “Why don't you romance me any more?” He looked at me and said “Do you really want to know?” Nervously, I replied “Yes, please tell me.” He responded “Why don't you send me sexy text messages any more? Why don't you leave me little love notes any more? Why don't you leave romantic voicemails any more? When you took the time to do these things, it shows me how much you wanted, loved and found me attractive. Since you stopped doing these things, I just figured you weren't interested in any romance.” Why the heck did I open up this can of worms? That's what I was thinking.
Women often get caught up being busy with their kids, school, work, friends, and house chores. With all of their responsibilities, they also often forget about our husband's needs. Unconsciously, we forget to do the little things they like. They don't see the things we do like clean, cook, wash, shop and take care of the kids as loving them. They need visual things to keep them enticed. They need to see, feel, and hear a woman's wants.
Lately, I've been sending him short text messages about how sexy I thought he looked with his bald head and how I couldn't wait to rub it when I got home. The other thing I did without warning is ask him for a kiss and then take my time and kiss him passionately. When he's on the phone, I make it a point to kiss or caress him lightly on the sides of back of his neck. Just enough love to distract him from his conversation.
Women love to get all of the attention, because they are usually the ones giving the attention to their families. We forget men like that too. Now I make sure I allocate at least 15 minutes a day out of my busy schedule to show my husband how much I love, want and find him irresistible by doing those things I did before.
