Hello Ladies, My name is R.G.Parrish author of “The Key to Understanding Men” And I am here to tell you that men are so different from each other. Their wants and needs vary from man to man. But I can sum up this question very easily for all men. Men want the love of an attractive woman who is sexually responsive. By attractive, I mean a woman who psychologically meets the criteria of what any particular man believes is attractive. A woman can be heavy or skinny, old or young, tall or short. It does not matter, because for every woman there is a man that finds them attractive. Beauty is definitely a variable among men. Read the next sentence carefully because I am sure you missed it at the beginning of this paragraph. “Men want the Love of an attractive woman who is sexually responsive”.
I know that to many women reading this it may sound sexist. But it is human nature. Men feel so many different emotions when they are being loved by a beautiful woman. The feel flattered, because the woman of beauty seems out of his league. Worthy, because he must be good enough if she wants to make love to him. And loved, she wouldn't want to be so intimate with him if she did not love him. Infatuated, because she is so beautiful and being intimate with the girl of your dreams just feels so wonderful. Curious, how far will she let me go, will she let me do this to her or that to her? Insecure, what if I ejaculate to quickly? What if she finds me unattractive naked? What if she thinks my penis is too small? What if I can't bring her to orgasm?
There are many insecurities men feel when making love to a women they find attractive for the first time. But the biggest insecurity for a young man is having a small penis or ejaculating too quickly.
For an older man his insecurities are about being fit looking. Men do not say it but they do worry about being over weight and out of shape. It may sound vain but an older man worries about the selection of women he can choose from. He knows that he is no longer a young stud with a tight body and everlasting endurance. And he thinks he knows what women see as sexually attractive. The man thinks you want a tight bodied six pack with dark hair and pearly white teeth. A young fit stud! For many of you ladies I am sure he is right. He knows he doesn't fit the description; so therefore, he won't be able to be with the attractive young female that he longs to be with. The one that makes him feel young again. He is now in a new league and his standards must change. He must now choose ladies that are near to his age.
I personally feel sorry for men who are in their later years. By later years I mean 50's and up. They have such good self esteem and they believe that they can still attract women in their teens to early 20's. Sure it may happen occasionally. But I have never seen it unless the relationship comes with 7 figure bankroll. For the most part all I have seen is older men make complete fools out of themselves and not even know it. They get their ears pierced and play their new selection of music loud. They go to parties where the younger generations are at only to try to act like a stud for the young girls. They end up seeming like a perverted old man that people avoid. I praise them for their self esteem, but maybe it's time to accept reality. He is like that old dog that still chases the Frisbee. Sometimes he can catch it but most of the time he can't.
Now let's not forget the first part, the love of a beautiful woman who is sexually responsive. How wonderful it is to be loved by a beautiful woman. To really capture the heart of a beautiful woman! To see her pretty smile pointed directly at us. To have her cuddle up to us to get warm or just be close. To have her look into our eyes with a oneness that just simply completes us. How she accepts us so completely by making love to us so intimately. What can I say to these things? For a man, you simply complete who we are. We love you, we need you and in the beginning we are afraid we will lose you. So what do we want? We just want you. And we want you to want us back.
Remember ladies, men are so sensitive about seeming weak. They won't tell you the deepest things in their heart. It's just not the way men are. You may be reading this article and say this isn't my man. But the truth is he has feelings that run just as deep as yours. His heart is a very intricate and complex part of who he is. And his needs should become yours needs just as your needs should become part of his.
So now you know what men really want from women. If you truly love him than, give yourself freely to him, heart and soul.
