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What Men Want That Women Shouldn't Ignore

A few things women need to know to be the perfect girlfriend/wife.

Kiss Him When He is Down

Men would always want to be with someone who will defend or support him. It is easier for him to accept help from you once he admits his weakness or a specific problem or issue that is bringing him down. Help him to feel secure, like you have his back. We always depend on them when we are down; I guess it is just right to return the favor. He will love you more for that.

Share a Good Laugh With Him and Not at Him

Part of what most men look for in a partner is a good sense of humor. He finds this important because he looks at it as a sign of mental compatibility. Most men want a woman who can laugh at her own ridiculous anecdotes as she is listening to his. Humor him wisely and he will look forward to spending time with you more.

Public Displays of Affection

This might be an issue for some women who are not into the PDA thing but think twice because most men would want their partner to be confident enough in her sexuality to make a move, no matter what the circumstances are

Get to Know his Friends

It is important that you relate with his friends. Often we get jealous with the time he spends with his friends, and sometimes whether we like it or not, he listens to his friend more compared to us. It's just appropriate that you win the heart of his friends, be one of them. Understand the relationship he has with them.

Introduce Him and Let Him Spend Time With Your Friends as Well

Though they may not tell you so but men do get jealous too with the time you spend with your girl or guy friends as well. They also want to be a part of your life as much you want to be a part of his life. Introduce him to your friends because in doing so you have assured him that you are not in any way ashamed of him. It's a give and take process.

Compliment Him

It is not like telling him how great he looks but more on telling him how good he makes you feel and that you are comfortable and safe with him. What he wants to hear is no matter what he looks, there is something deeper about him that you find really sexy, may it be the way he talks to you or the way he touches you. In doing so, you are reinforcing his efforts to care for you more.

Be a Shoulder to Lean On

Men don't usually have mood swings as frequently as we do; they on the other hand are good in hiding them. Be sensitive. Whenever you feel that he is acting different, ask him what's wrong. Assure him that he can talk to you freely, that you are there to listen. Sometimes it is just what they want from you. Whenever he feels bad about work, treat him to a movie or dinner. Make him feel good, make him smile.

Know What Turns Him On

Be confident in yourself and tell him what you want. Acknowledge the fact that he is pleasing you and that he is doing it right. Be more aggressive and take control sometimes, most men would want that than just lying around waiting. Spice up your sex life because having great sexual encounters is one validation that you have a healthy relationship. It all is in your hands, being a woman you are capable of doing things that your man will surely appreciate, experiment…then he will be yours forever.

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