It's baffled men since the beginning of time.How to make women happy? What is it that they want from us. They don't always come out and say it,and get angry with us when we don't figure it out on our own.Well I have some answers for you. Finally at thirty years old, I have learned what it is we are supposed to do to keep the little ladies happy.
First of all you have to give them compliments. When the moments right ,and it's not out of place say something nice.Wow you look gorgeous today.Or your hair looks really nice,I like your hair.
That's just an example, the bottom line is say something nice about how she looks.Even if you feel awkward or reluctant or it doesn't feel natural coming out of your mouth,trust me just do it.If she is complaining about how bad her day was,or if her feet or back is killing her,be sympathetic and show her some compassion.Make a comment showing that you care about the way she is feeling.Give her some sensual support. I know it's hard when you had a worse day ,and your feet and back are hurting even more,don't try to compete for who had the worse day.
There are times when a man doesn't want to hear a woman complain about the most ridicules things.Naturally we are not sensitive creatures.We function on mainly logic ,and reason.But our women go mainly on emotion.And many times we don't want to hear the whining.But all you have to do is suck it up,and tell her what she needs to hear.It will take a few seconds of your time,and it won't hurt at all.
They always want to talk about their feelings,and find out how you feel about something.Don't let it show that you aren't interested in hearing what she has to say.Another thing that helps is for example.Don't make her do all the household chores herself.I'm not saying put an apron on and play house.All you have to do is little things.Wait until she is just about done with the dishes,and tell her you'll finish them up for her,or maybe put some of them away.Do a little vacuuming. You'll be surprised just how much she'll be pleased when you've barely done anything at all.The way she is seeing it is that you thought for a moment about helping her,and noticing what she doing and actually offer to help.
Just show a women that you care.If you just give a little you'll usually get a whole lot more in return. Face it,in most cases our women do a lot more for us than we do for them.Show some love,be sensitive at times. And just acknowledge that you realize how she feels and what she does.It's going to benefit you more than it will benefit her if you know what I mean (wink,wink). So try it out.It will come hard at first,but it'll get easier as you keep doing it,especially when you see the results.Give a little and you'll get a lot in return.
