She met him in a bar. Instantly, there was a connection . The feeling was obviously mutual because during the entire night, no one could take your eyes off each other.
It was the sweetest feeling you ever had. A pail of emotion that could not be contained. He was the perfect man; She was the perfect woman. Months passed and they got married. Everything was tip good to be true that they even decided not to have a child right away so that they can spend time with each other all the more. After several years, they started noticing how different they were. Their objectives and goals concerning the future never coincided. Days passed and they noticed the bad traits of each other more and less of what they found in one another the first day they met. The marriage was a goner ...The love was fading away and the worse part is that the respect they had for each other was gone. Hurting words and physical abuse started to arise. Yes ...this marriage is a goner.
What went wrong? Was it just because of their bad traits ? I feel it's more than that. When you meet somebody; Al- ways be reminded that he /she will never show their true colors right away. Why be swayed by Physical attraction when there so much more to look forward to in an individual. Marriage should be entered upon for the right reasons and not "just because."
Once you see that there is something you do not like in your partner ; address him/ her right away. But please be proactive and not reactive. Make sure that you use the right words at the right time and at the right place. Loving a person strong for you to want to spend an eternity with someone is not a joke. Loving is giving, acknowledging and admitting that you are wrong when you really are. Never use the words GOODBYE if you cannot live up to it. Learn to be a good listener and respect his/ her opinions the way you would want him to respect yours. Never dwell on your past and head to where you want to go. Learn to forgive ; Love unconditionally. Save your marriage if you feel that it is worth saving.
