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When Three is a Threesome

Tips to cope well when a friend tags along on a date. You might even impress your boyfriend.

Ever been on one of those dates when your boyfriend brought someone along? Did it prove to be an ordeal for you? You wanted so much to be alone with your boyfriend but he messed things up when he brought company. Don't fret. I have a few pointers to give you.

  1. Grin and Bear It

    The deed is already done so you might as well make the most of it. Forget about cuddling to him or playing footsie under the table. Behave in proper decorum. You don't want his friend to think you don't know how to behave.
    1. Make Polite Conversation With His Friend

      Don't seem too interested. You don't want him to think you're interested in him. Remember you love your boyfriend, even if you think his friend is cute.
    2. Play the Hostess

      Do the honors. You never know. You might end up being the Mrs to your guy sooner than you think. Smile. You have nothing to lose.
    3. Claim Ownership

      Be brave about it. Let his friend know you dictate your boyfriend's time now and not him. It will set him thinking if nothing else.
    4. Don't Put The Relationship In Jeopardy

      Don't jeopardize your good relation with your boyfriend by sulking. The guy has the right to have friends. Many or a few. Be warned. If he has too many friends, you'll find yourself fighting for his time. So make sure he doesn't have too many. Have a talk with him if need be.
    5. Get a Warning

      Make sure he gives you advance notice when he brings his friend along so you can dress appropriately for the occasion. Keep the revealing and see-through clothes for the next time when you're alone with him. He will be unable to keep his hands off you then.
    6. Make It a Group Outing

      The next time your boyfriend gives advance notice, ask your girlfriend to come along. She might hit it off with his friend. You'll have your boyfriend's attention all to yourself then.
    7. Don't Let The Friend Get Wild

      Make sure his friend doesn't drink too much. Your boyfriend might have to take him home and ruin your time with him. Keep a lid on the drinks. Don't be too obvious, though.

    Being on a threesome date can be a fun experience. Learn to handle things as they come. Don't panic and fret. Most importantly, don't chew your nails. Have fun!

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