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Why Do Love Fails?

A brief summary on why relationships doesn't last long.

In an early stage of a relationship, you will feel excited. When you gone too far, both of you will encounter problems. We are humans and definitely humans are not perfect. You can never acquire all attitudes of an ideal partner, but you can grow, learn and change.

Falling out of love is one reason why love fails. In some cases, people who fall out of love experienced too much pain and heartaches. In the long run , they will wake up one day to the fact that they are not anymore in love with their partner.

Another is lack of proper communication. It plays an important part of a relationship because good communication brings you closer together. If your relationship lacks communication, it may lead to misunderstanding and misunderstanding may lead to arguments and arguments may lead to break- ups.

Some people abused their partner physically and emotionally. Why? Because they feel that if they do bad things to their partner, they will still be loved, but they don't know that bad things makes their partner stronger and a strong person can easily find the right path and move on with their life without the abused partner.

Trust is one thing that makes a relationship last, but a relationship will last if both trust each other. If somehow, infidelity, lies and broken promises come into your relationship, the trust will be damaged but you can always rebuilt it. In rebuilding trust, it's hard and it takes time, but you must be patient enough to save your relationship.

A partner who is honest to himself is also honest to his partner. If both of you are honest, probably, there will be no doubts.

If you are really in love with the person no matter what he is, what kind of attitude he has, you will still love him. Nobody is perfect, love can wait, love can change you from bad to good. Love really grows, I believe on that. If your partner doesn't change his insecurities at all after so many years, I don't think it's love.

Love is priceless. Love can make you strong. Love can make you weak. Always remember that Love is a gift. Don't withhold it because it will come unexpectedly.

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Comments (8)
#1 by ssieon, Oct 26, 2007
jchg
#2 by ssieon, Oct 26, 2007
lour message
#3 by ssieon, Oct 26, 2007
not brief message
#4 by Franklin Amadi, Dec 27, 2007
i really think that there is more to love than feelings. The problem that seems to stare us in the face in our relationship's sometimes, is as a result of our overexpectation that things will always be fine and that nothing will ever go wrong. and because we are unarmed to this truth we are always bound to think differently and most times the wrong way. What i mean is this, people In relationships, should always prepare for the worst so that when it comes, it does not leave you in shock because u were earlier prepared for it. But please don't fail to poure out your feelings if you wish to do so.There is always enough to go around.
#5 by Katrina Noelle, Feb 10, 2008
Love never dies a natural death. It
dies because we don't know how to
replenish its source. It dies of
blindness and errors and betrayals. It
dies of illness and wounds; it dies of
weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.
#6 by ana , Mar 10, 2008
love fails because one does not put enough effort in the relationship. when one in love they should push till they feel that the relationship is going well personal experience talks
#7 by jinger, Jul 17, 2008
...feelings can be very deceiving! We can always love and be loved and it\'s just a matter of deciding to commit yourself to a certain person. Feelings can always change but if we were determined that we wanted to be with the person we love...love would never fails. Pains, sacrifices and disappointments will always be part of loving all we need to do is to brave enough to face it and understand that when loving a person...it is also a battle of pain and sacrifices.
#8 by Ram Hari , Jul 17, 2008
heloo,

i'm agree with you. i have an experiance that the love didn't grew at the pick place due to lack of communication.
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