Some feel as if they should not have to work for things, yet in life we all know that nothing comes free and if it does you should probably throw it back. When your mate has things that they might want to share with you are you taking out the time to listen to them or are you brushing them to the side.
If someone feels unwanted or unloved in some way or another they tend to find things or people that give them what they are looking for. Ask yourself am I sending my love away and if you are not buying out the time to spend with them or if you are judging what they have to say before they say it, you might just be pushing your love away.
We sometimes lack love for ourselves and might not know it, look deep within and find the qualities that you have to sell yourself. My mate is my job and in order to keep my job I have to:
- show up everyday
- work hard, because everyone that does not have a job is most likely looking for mine
- appreciate the fact that I have a job and the fact that it wants me to come every day prepared
As long as we do these things the rut that we have put ourselves in of not having the love that we so deeply yearn for will come in due time. We also must have the patience of Job, please don't run your mate off rushing them into marriage. Just because there is a court building that gives marriage licenses Monday through Friday does not mean that you should continuously remind your mate of this.
In time when the feelings are mutual the bond of marriage will come and if they don't and you have done all that you can send this article to you mate. It is then obvious that they have the problem and it is not you or you just have not run into the one just yet. That is when that patience comes back in handy and you wait just a little longer for love to find you
