MONEY
These is rampant among ladies, they love guys with a rich man stature who rides a car with fitted air conditioner. And guys love ladies who are working class, who can cater for her financial needs. This is no bad idea to choose a guy or lady for marriage; it is not sufficient to marry him or her based on these facts. Accumulated wealth, which is not well planned for will surely varnish. Ask yourself these questions; how is this guy or lady making his or her money? Does he or she have plans and goal for his or her future? Please be convinced that he or she can manage the wealth before you decide.
PHYSICAL STATURE
The so-called ''figure-eight'' of a lady and the V-shaped chest of a man are enough physical stature to make one choose a wrong man or woman as husband or wife. What can you say about a man with V-shaped chest or a woman with figure-eight shaped who does not reason before doing things. He or she will give the order, you is to obey, be it right or wrong.
PITY
Showing a feeling of sympathy to a guy or lady because he or she is in trouble or suffering from one thing or the other. You hoping to be a solution to his or her problems now decided to get married with him or her. You might later find yourself in the same type of troubles. Therefore, sympathize and give help to anyone who needs it. And if you still want to go ahead, then think of coping with the problem and not as a solution to the problem.
LOW SELF-ESTEEM
Develop yourself-esteem rather than depending on a partner who has already developed his or her esteem. You cannot successfully hid under him or her forever; you will one day face realities. Then you might break his or her heart due to your low self-esteem. Never be shy, express yourself anywhere.
PRESSURE
Neglect pressure from friends and families, settle down and choose your right partner. To build a happy home is not a day's job. Do not run into marriage and run out of it months later.
BLIND LOVE
Right from my childhood, I have been hearing the sayings that “Love is Blind”. Then I wonder what blind folded love. Up till today, I still hear people saying it. Then, I do not bother asking why many marriages failed. At first, when love is blind, they hooked up without noticing the errors committed by the second partner.
At last, love will open eyes and the errors will now be visible. They now have to break up. Is love really blind then?
SEX
The saying “love without sex is nothing”, as proved itself wrong over many year. Sex has been blessed specially for marriage; any sex outside wedlock is been referred to as fornication or adulteration. Now, if sex is the major reason for you to marry him or her, then you have missed it. You will not have sex all the days of your life. When you are in mood and he or she isn't you will be disappointed. You do not marry a sex machine. Therefore, he or she cannot satisfy you forever.
In my next edition on this matter, I will give reasons base on why you should get married. Check this page always to know when it is out.
