Women Don't Know What A Good Man Is and When They Do Meet One, They Don't Know How To Handle Him

I can't understand women. Why they fall for the guys who mistreat them, abandon them, use them, etc? Why do women keep taking guys back that beat up on them, cheat on them, etc.? I see this a lot with women from different religions and races and ages.

During my life in Los Angeles for 2 ½ years, I had made friends with a girl that is a single mom. She's a year older me and I won't reveal to anyone her race. Her baby daddy is a meth. addict that has four kids with another girl that he was with before she met him. Anyways, after being friends with her for a year, she allowed him to come back into their lives because he was trying to sober up, again! He was around for a couple of months and then one day he took off.

A couple of weeks later, one of her friends saw him on the streets of Skid Row drinking, laughing, and having a good time. Then guess what, she came running to me for comfort. And man did I make one of the biggest mistakes of my life! I comforted her and spent time with her and ended up becoming a father figure to her son and he came to love me to death.

Well anyways, we was hanging out a lot and she talked my ears off about things like she was trying to make herself all wise, but it turns out that she's full of crap. I think that I got used more than any thing else by her. To make this long story short, no matter what I did for her and her kid I still wasn't good enough for her.

I was the only guy who cared about the person inside of her and looked past her mistakes in life and during our 2 ½ years of friendship and me wanting to be with her, I tried not once to have sex with her. Her boy came to love me like a father and every time he saw me he would get excited and jump up about it. She told me about all of the other guys that she was with and I was the only one who cared about her and not just for the sex like the others in her life.

Then guess what? The piece of garbage came back. After being gone for over a year and doing only what God knows and with only God knows who. He came back to her and told her his famous, along with other piece of crap guys, lines by saying “Girl, I'm sorry. I love you and think the world of you. I made a mistake and hope that you can forgive me. I want to do better and be in your life and our kid's life. I love you.”

However, if you read in between the lines you would realize what he was actually saying to her “Bitch, you are the dumbest girl that I have ever met. You aren't worth anything and you're not special. Take me back and put a roof over my head and help me out with whatever I need and during all of this let me get on top of you.” Overall, despite all that I had done for her and her kid, a meth addict was more man and more worth having than me.

Why do women do that? Its just proof that women don't know what a good man is and when they come to meet one, they don't know how to handle him.

Let's look at other scenarios. Girls that get involved with the 50 Cent wannabe that doesn't want to work and earn money the right way. Guys that get involved with drugs whether it be doing them or sale them. Guys who call hustling a career and getting shot at over something stupid and going to prison for half a life a real man. What more do women want in a guy? A good man should put his woman first and their kids (if they have any) and treat her with respect and if it comes down to it he should be willing to loose his life for hers. A girl told me that women do this because they have a fear of being alone, its not a fear its because they're not hitting on anything themselves.

Then you got the other morans who wont date a guy unless he has a car and Lex Lugar figure. But that's another thing and I don't feel like getting into that. But you know what really grinds my gears? Is Christian women! They're just as bad as sinner women. I tell you that all because a girl claims to be saved that doesn't mean that she still isn't stupid.

A woman who claims to be saved should know what a real man is and not be listening to the world. But yet they still base their relationships on what Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, etc. say that a man is.

If you use your common sense then maybe you should learn that taking advice from celebrities isn't smart because they can't hold a man themselves. That's like a white man telling a black man what its like to be oppressed because of their skin color.

It is my argument that women in American society have become so ignorant that they don't know what a man is nor do they know how to handle him. I'll take this argument with anyone and be able to win. Thank you very much for reading and have a nice day.