How many times can you forgive broken sex loyalty?
In a relationship loyalty ensures exclusivity of love feelings, which makes sense if you think that, ultimately, two lovers want to merge with each other. If one of them then betrays the other, how are you going to forgive him or her?
And if you forgive him or her, are you ensured that the sad situation will not be repeated? And if it happens again, how many times more are you going to forgive?
This is the problem with broken sex loyalty - it can only be broken once and that's it.
When Peter asked Jesus how many times they should forgive sinners, Jesus basically told him many times. But loyalty is a different matter. Even Judas belly exploded in the field he bought with the 30 silver coins he got from betraying Jesus with a kiss in his chick.
What I realise now and after a long time observing people is that some are constitutionally loyal. These are loyal because that's just what they are.
Others, though, think they ought to be loyal, especially if the situation, such as an exciting love relationship, calls for it. They are like the athlete that aspires at doing 60 push ups in one go and are full of good intentions.
Not surprisingly, the aspiring loyals are generally closely guarded by their lovers who, by doing so, try to put at bay any competing element and so ensure their partners' loyalty is not broken. I would say this is loyalty by exclusion.
On the opposite situation are the natural loyals who are proud, strong and accept no remark made on their loyal behaviour. They walk in a fine line stand for what they do.
Obviously, these two categories of loyal kind of sex behaviour could be complemented by a third category: the one of the overt sex betrayer. What is typical of this is that they think that way they have more to gain. They might one day get sex and the next loose their lovers.
This is the case of that Penthouse Pet of the Year that had sex with a prominent American cinema actor on his visit to Sydney and then lost her relationship the day after when her boyfriend got to know of that.
I suppose sex betrayers stand to learn from their own experiences.
