I first heard this comment made by Puff Daddy on one of his promotional commercials. He said he was cultivating his sexy with some product. I thought long and hard about that phrase. "Cultivating Your Sexy" seemed like something that all of us should be doing in our lives. We are grown men and women. Sexy is a part of life. It is what they use to sell us all of our products that we use. From our jeans to our meat and even sometimes toys. Even our children are introduced to sex way to young, if you ask me (but, who asked me?...so let's move on...).
So, this article is all about you cultivating the sexy in you! You can't cultivate something that you don't already have. So you must have sexy to cultivate it. And you do have sexy! Only sexy people are even reading this article. It called to you! Your inner self said, I am sexy and I want to get cultivated!
Well, let me get started with the only tool you will ever need. That is your mind. Your mind (your thoughts) is what produces your sexy. Some of you may be thinking "Nah, if I don't look like Halle Berry or Brad Pitt, then I am doomed!" That could not be further from the truth.
Sexy is not about outer looks at all, really. Outer looks fade miserably to the power of the great sexiness that I speak of. Without the love god Sexy, then Halle and Brad would not have a chance. But with you knowing the power of your sexy, you have all of the chances in the world!
Say it with me "I am sexy!" You may not have felt that deep down inside yet, but we will get you there. Say it again "I am sexy!" The mere act of saying this statement has already put your love libido in overhaul. Even if you may not feel it yet. Your mind is working right now to make this statement true.
Oh, and the great mind will avail. Being sexy or anything else for that matter is simple. The other a little less simple part is believing it. Even though believing is simple as well. We are going to get into a little mind chatter to help you cultivate your sexy mac vibe. So, let's go!
If you can believe it, then you can achieve it. That is an old adage and is most certainly true. So, my simple task is to tell you how to believe and your even more simple task is to learn to believe. This is what you need to cultivate your sexy.
First you must have a sincere desire to cultivate your sexy. Then you must think about just the mere word "sexy" on a regular basis. I know you are thinking this love scribe is crazy and just babbling off. But not in the least. I know that I am no beauty queen. But that is ok, because I have a very cultivated sexy and people tell me and show me all the time. Including people that I know and people that I don't know.
I cultivate my sexy daily by thinking about it various times during the day. I used to do this more often when I was a "non-believer." Now, that I believe, I think it without even trying to. I merely just think "I'm sexy!" "I am a sexy, chick, yeah!" When I see my reflection in the shopping mall window, I say "Wow, I'm looking stunning!"
Another thing that keeps my sexy flowing is the sexy walk. I walk like I'm sexy. I think while I'm walking..."I am the sexiest thing in this room!" This is not just for women. This is for men too. You don't have to walk like a woman to get sexy, unless walking like a woman is your thing. Then strut your stuff! Otherwise for our straight male readers. Walk around like you know something that I don't know.
There is also your appearance. Dress comfortably. The more uncomfortable you are in your clothes. The more that will show. You can dress nice and still be comfortable. I realize that I get more play on my lounge days than I do on the days that I am in full regalia. Even though I feel sexy in both cases. Everyone wants to be around someone who is comfortable in their own skin.
And definitely take care of your appearance. If you feel "blah" when you look in the mirror! Then you are not dressed nice. I don't care what you are wearing. When you look in the mirror you should smile. I am not saying that you need to buy a whole new wardrobe. Take pride in the wardrobe that you have. Iron it up, spruce it up with a little dye, or stitch it up! Ladies, put on a little make up. Men, keep your skin fresh with a little bit of facial wash.
I will do the next article tips for keeping your sexy, sexy on a budget.
For now, these are some simple tips for cultivating your sexy. Nothing hard. These simple little things will make a believer out of you. So, follow the ones you like and discard the ones that you don't and you will still see the simplicity of it work for you. It is just the simple things that make the grand things of life. Great people are the people that deal in the little things.
