Maybe you think you've seen it all, you've heard it all, and you've read it all, but not quite, there a just a few more things you have to know to be the perfect lover.Remember, two bodies coming together, both filled with desires of a sexual nature, are about to create a work of Art that no one will ever duplicate, because it's yours and only yours, so don't rush this work of Art. Touch your partner till he or she can't take it anymore. They can no longer stand the feelings that seem to be overwhelming them. Remember, the two of you are creating a work of Art, not to be rushed, and in creating this work of Art, the two of you will find something in each other, that neither of you knew existed.
I don't care what you have seen, or read. The truth be known, you may already be a good lover, but are you great? Are you an Artist, or just a guy with an erection looking for a woman to share sometime with, no matter the outcome? Not too many men can proclaim to be great lovers, as many men aren't patient enough with their women to achieve this greatness, in or out of the bedroom. There can be many reasons why, but the most important reason is communication. A woman may see a hot looking man, or a man may see a hot looking woman, and think to himself, wow, I bet she's good in bed. Just because someone looks good, doesn't mean that they are good in bed or good sexually, it just means that your mind perceives them to be good or great because they appeal to your image of the perfect sexual partner. In fact, just because they look good, they may actually be no good in bed, or good sexually. Remember, when looking at the woman, who turns you on. You aren't looking at her naked, she's dressed, and with the fashions of today, some women look better dressed than undressed.
Why would anyone ever consider a woman not being good in bed or in having sex? My God, she's so beautiful, how could anyone that beautiful, not be good in the bedroom or in the sexual acts that the two of you are trying to have? The reason is, that some women just lie on their backs, and don't participate in the act of making love. They have no communication skills and they want the attention with the foreplay and such, but they really don't participate all that much.
A woman who is considered good in bed gives as much as she receives. She doesn't lay around waiting for the man to do what she likes, she is one step ahead of him and maybe even sometimes she takes the lead, which in turn encourages the man to take their love making a notch higher, as she seems to be the type of woman who wants to enjoy their love making and there-fore she's not afraid to try new things. This type of woman is considered a good lover, if not a great lover, and don't be too surprised, there aren't that many women out there in this wide world of ours that a man could consider great. I don't have any figures to quote, as none seem to exist, but the women vs. the men in being good lovers, is probably about even.
Here are some of the reasons why both men and women aren't good in bed, or sexually good, and what you can do about it.
Women
Most women can be good in the sex department if they try and most importantly of all, if they are willing to express to the man, they are about to make love with, what it is that really turns them on. If a woman doesn't become active in the love making process she won't ever be a good lover, as it takes two to be great, no one person can achieve this alone. If you are open minded, and want your partner to last longer in the bedroom, and during your love making, give your man oral sex. That way a woman can be assured that he won't ejaculate again, before she's had time to become turned on. I won't say this happens in all cases, but with most men in their mid 20's and older, they rarely can have another ejaculation so quickly, as the first one.
Women have to open a new chapter in their lives. You are committed to having orgasms in double figures, never mind one or two orgasms, here and there, and more so, you'd like to squirt as well, and the only way you can achieve this is to advise the man you are about to sleep with, what it is that really turns you on. The one or two key things he can do to you that will send you over the edge of sexual pleasure, where ever that edge might be for you, as no two women are the same, no two women feel the same things, when it comes to sexual pleasures, and no two women get turned on the same way.
