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Premarital Sex: Advantages and Disadvantages

What are the advantages and disadvantages of premarital sex?

The change in the 20th century of American society in the scope of premarital sex is the dramatical increasing of premarital sex behavior. According to the survey data, in the past, premarital sex rate was low, and premarital sex will often lead to marriage. Women born in the 1900's, only 8% had premarital sex before the age of 20; women born from 1910 to 1919, the rate of premarital sex increased to 23 %.

According to the 1974 National Survey data, adults, 25 years of age, 97% of men and 81% of women had premarital sex. France in 1972, the survey indicates that 29 years of age, 75% of men and 55% of women have had sexual relations before marriage. The most extreme figures from Sweden, the ratio of men and women that have premarital sex experience is as high as 99%. In other words, in Sweden, people enjoy the high degree of sexual freedom and gender equality.

What's The Advantages and Disadvantages of Premarital Sex?

Premarital sex experience benefits us both physically and psychologically--conducive to health, because of the urgent need, not towed until adulthood. According to psychological studies, it shows that when the organs of our body become mature because of hormone secretion. Psychologically, people will, accordingly with the changes, have sexual desire, which is normal. If the desire cannot be satisfied, it will affect people's work, learning, and life.

However, it varies according to the different people - some are very strong, and some are very weak. When people are with a strong desire, the so-called "sexual energy", they can temporarily alleviate the sexual energy produced by having sex, which can give them a happy feeling, and a sense of achievement.

The Side Effects of Premarital Sex Experience

Many modern young women do not mind the long-term relationship. They think that as long as men love them, they do not care about if it is a long relationship. In fact, these women can only see the surface. They do not know what would happen later actually. Premarital sex in general have occurred in the students and those without a stable source of community among the youths. They have sex because sex is something curious for them, and they will not be responsible, or in any obligations.

When the sexual desire is gone, and something unexpected happens, some of them have the psychological fear, inferiority. Because premarital sex occurred in the majority of those who lack the knowledge of sex and experience, they may be pregnant after having sex, which may do great harm to these women physically and psychologically. Some of the disease once infected, there is no way to treat the disease, such as AIDS.

According to analysis and what we discussed above, I think premarital sexual experience has pros and cons, and by and large, the benefit of premarital sex is far less than the disadvantages. How to solve the problem of premarital sex behavior still remains an arduous task and a problem for us to tackle.

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Comments (42)
#1 by chea, Sep 5, 2007
thanks for this information...i learned a lot...
i also have something to submit on my teacher for my project...
#2 by Loveureyes, Sep 7, 2007
;-)
#3 by vins, Sep 20, 2007
yah thats true
i totally agree with that
#4 by Florad, Oct 14, 2007
how on earth can one do that?
#5 by jessy m., Oct 23, 2007
hey loveureyes... can i get your name please... i need it for one of my citation in class. i need it coz its a project and i wanted to get some ideas of yours to put in my research..
#6 by azboy, Nov 8, 2007
i believe sex was made for marriage only.. it is like a present under the xmass tree that has been opened before the proper time. that act comes with, yes an exciting feeling, but soon the guilt drops in... its better to wait.. plus its heaps safe physically... who likes STD's??? GROSS>....
#7 by stdQT 04, Dec 6, 2007
sex is grand. we have been influenced by religion to think otherwise. its a great exercise (burns 200 calories ever encounter.) people are more likely to brush their teeth before and after sex. sex is just like anything else, it would be like holding hands. a hand goes INTO another hand.
#8 by pLeaSurE mE 09, Dec 6, 2007
stdQT is so right, i like clean teeth (: but i think holding hands is a bigger deal than having sex, a hand touching another is just gross!i love the comments above, we need to meet up and give eachother some presents from under the xmas tree.
#9 by His Excelency, Jan 10, 2008
No. 1 b4 u have it u fink its gd, but after its nothing.
Loads of problems and 'What was i Pushing maself 4's wen finished.
Its addictive, Dont try it b4 marriage.
Some p'ple even lose concetration, so u cant stand on yo own.
And its a sin.
#10 by van'z, Jan 13, 2008
this is need two one individual to realize them that they also love ba! talaga each other
#11 by charlmay..., Jan 13, 2008
sex is a good exercise bit i ges me must do it in the right time...and the ryt time for me is after marriage. . .let us preserve ourselves to gain respect. .
#12 by theona, Feb 6, 2008
its kinda wrong yes,but it has some good things about it too.
#13 by theona, Feb 6, 2008
people should wait and dont force things. i says wait
#14 by sexisgreat, Feb 19, 2008
sex is amaizing, and it would be stupid to wait til marriage. would you buy a car without test driving it, no, so why would you marry someone without sleeping with them first. it only makes sense people. have sex!
#15 by athan, Feb 23, 2008
Sex is the evil of man and his health,so far for that like evil
#16 by feona, Mar 6, 2008
sex was stupid!!
#17 by phlegmatic, Mar 11, 2008
sex is great exercise but it is just an excuse to those who practicing it,and i guess that it is illogical to lose our virginity just for an exercise..we have many ways to be healthy..
-the great escape of boys like girls..try this!!
#18 by Sam, Mar 30, 2008
Before marriage having sex is a grave sin and calls for severe punishment....Avoid it....
#19 by Stephen Nico, May 21, 2008
Wow!!!

I like reading this article!!!

More!!! More!!!
#20 by claire, Jun 21, 2008
i just recently lost my virginity. I'm 19 years old
and i used to want to save myself until marriage.
I have learned though, that as long as you do it at the right age, with a person you care & love, with the basic knowledge and when you do it with responsibility. There aren't any regrets. It's awesommme :)
#21 by Cyrus, Jun 29, 2008
Hi.I'm 17 years old. does watching sex movies affect our health(I mean without touching myself,just to see? Is it bad or good or none of them?
#22 by Perspective, Jun 30, 2008
To azboys comment \\\\\\\" who likes STDs\\\\\\\", MARRIAGE DOSE NOT PREVENT STDs!!!!! To athan, who said \\\\\\\"Sex is the evil of man and his health\\\\\\\", you are an idiot!! WHY DO YOU THINK WE HAVE SEX TO PROCREATE?!!!!? BECAUS IT IS THE MOST NATURAL THING A PERSON CAN DO!!! To much of any thing is not good and not being safe is dumb but for real!If you love each other that should be good enough. All that marage is any more is a pice of papper! The name of marrage has been tainted by the morrons who didnt test the car befor buying it! And to Cyrus, just watching is ok but if you watch and dont masterbate it builds up hormones which is not good to have an exces of hormones. Docters have proven that masterbation is healthy. Once a day keeps the temptations away.
#23 by SWT.T, Jul 9, 2008
Im 19 yrs old &still a virgin to all the virgins out there DONT DO IT UNTIL YOU FELL IT RIGHT
#24 by ..rhose_rhods, Jul 15, 2008
ahm..actually i agree dat u've done sex after marriage!!let us preserve our self...hahaha!!!!let us keep virginity........
#25 by rajesh, Jul 20, 2008
its totally depend on d person--if pre-mari sex is not correct thn its not wrong also as long as the person is ok about it
#26 by Ben Dover, Jul 20, 2008
i think that sex before marriage is a good thing because it lets you try before you buy. and you get experience and it AWESOME!!!!!!!!!
#27 by Amber, Jul 21, 2008
Trst me this article tells the truth, i should know because i feel for it and now i have a 3 month old son! Its tough work and i wouldnt wish it on anyone who isn't ready for a kid.
#28 by Amber, Jul 21, 2008
*******Trust me this article tells the truth, i should know because i fell for it and now i have a 3 month old son! Its tough work and i wouldnt wish it on anyone who isn't ready for a kid.
#29 by gon, Jul 28, 2008
.........try it!...its goo!
#30 by yemmex, Aug 2, 2008
Firstly i want u to know dat sex is more than a physical thing, its also spiritual. If u av sex wih somebody who is not ur wife or a prostitute, u r both jointed together in the realm of the spirit,and when u av it with more people ur judgement becomes imbalance, thats why u ask someone a straight question and they say (i dont know,am not sure,i cant say)PLEASE IF U MUST AV SEX LET IT BE IN MARRIAGE AND WITH UR COUPLE ALONE.
#31 by M Saleem, Aug 6, 2008
i am 28 years old man.I started mausterbation at the age of 13 year.I have done this frequently somtime twice and more a day.still i am doing it on the daily basis.but now me is weak mentally and physically.i am afraiding form merrage,as i finish soon and can,t satisfy wife as she want.
can u give me suggestion to solve yhis problem.thanks
#32 by psycho, Aug 12, 2008
yah.........sure...I don't know why they like it.....
#33 by psycho, Aug 12, 2008
Know what this site is good i like it...i can learn from it...i've got more ideas for my PPP...ahmmm can you post something lets just assume that sex is moral can you tell me how it can be moral??????pls i need it very badly
#34 by Lita Tina, Aug 18, 2008
Their is no sex advantage and people should not have sex before marriage.
#35 by aika, Aug 20, 2008
Can u give us more reasons why premarital sex is a moral act?pls we nid it in our debate....
#36 by yosty and yasty, Aug 20, 2008
I have an ex bf whom until now I still love . but How can I love him?if he is not meant 4 me?My story goes this way......
My x bf is a seminarian He is now a theologian and maybe nxt yer He will be a priest. She loves me also but the problem is he dont know how to decide about our relationship. so i decided to giv him up in order 4 us to hve freedom and own choice in lyf..
Can u give me some advice about my story?
#37 by flash, Aug 22, 2008
4 me, sex is life!!!!!!!!! ajijiji, hmmmmmmp
but that's the reality, isn't it????????????
#38 by Draf, Aug 26, 2008
I think premarital sex is an immoral act because we nid to be virgin in that way you are giving ur self a respect...
#39 by tat, Aug 26, 2008
we alll know its immoral..but nowadays many of us have through with it....
#40 by psycho, Aug 30, 2008
Supposing that you don't really want to get married, you just want to have some fun. Besides you can not have an illness if you just do it safely
#41 by elsie-philippines, Sep 2, 2008
sex is a gift from God,but such gifts has a corresponding responsibility. We must be aware that sexual activity is intended for couples,or persons married ONLY. Otherwise,disastirous effects such as abortion results,and am afraid it is very rampant especially among the youth Whose understanding about such complex issue is narrow.
#42 by psycho, Sep 4, 2008
ahmm...does anyone of you know when and where did premarital sex started..??????????!!!!
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