Prepare a treat for each of his five senses: wear an eye-popping outfit; play his favorite sexy songs; apply some enticing perfume; hand-feed him strawberries dipped in chocolate; massage him from head to toe with warm aromatic oil.
Foreplay
Once you've got him all warm and tingly from your sensual massage, it's time to begin foreplay.
Tempt him with playful nips, soulful kisses and gentle caresses. The point of foreplay is to whet his appetite for the big event: making love.
Explore his entire body, and delight in finding his unique erogenous zones. Treat his entire body as if it is a single unified sex organ…because it is.
Don't forget to whisper naughty nothings into his ear!
The Big Event
Though I'm sure you will find plenty of other things to do with yourselves, making love is the no-holds-barred main event in the sexual arena.
This is where your multi-tasking skills will truly come in handy. The most masterful lady lovers are able to skillfully combine sexy talk, with kissing, caressing and wildly sexy pelvic motions to take their man to ecstasy multiple times per night.
When you make love to a man, you want him to feel sensations he has never felt with any woman; you want him to feel your signature sensations. This is where all of those Kegels exercises and work with Ben Wa balls will really come in handy.
Don't be shy about showing off the strength of your pelvic and vaginal muscles. Men can't get enough of a woman who can squeeze them in all the right places.
Afterplay
After intercourse (and whatever else you do when you're feeling frisky), the culminating act might be over but the erotic experience is still underway. During this time of after play, you'll want to talk, kiss, hold each other and just enjoy basking in the glow of your deliciously satisfying lovemaking.
Show Appreciation
Just as you wouldn't dream of failing to send a thank you note when someone gives you a gift you appreciate, you shouldn't dream of failing to show your gratitude toward a man who has given you pleasure beyond measure. Tell him how wonderful he was over and over again. Men love being told they do something well-especially that-and they love the women who take the initiative to tell them.
If you follow my advice and use the secrets as a guide, you can look forward to a lifetime of sexcess.
i have heard that it takes more time for a woman to get aroused than a man... so it should be the other way round.. men should do all this homework.. anyways it takes them very little effort to get aroused.