We all have at least some interest in sex its human nature. Sex is a natural thing but yet it's considered a sin. But so is divorce and even more so is murder but yet we as people still do these “sins”. Most of us have sex at least once in our life if death doesn't keep it from us. And sex makes life for most figuratively and literally. And then for others it can be considered to ruin their life and sometimes others.
What sex can give us can kill us. But so can what divorce can do to the heart. And we all know murder obviously kills and is not only a sin but also a crime and should be. Sex also can turn into a crime because of that natural urge, that drive for sex that can be hard to express and some people do things they shouldn't. But we all sometimes do things we shouldn't including with sex.
Sex is a heartbreaker, a disease maker, a divorce maker but its also one of the ways we express our love to our partner and create the children that we love that makes our families and the future generations and if nothing else sex relieves stress and urges and is naturally meant to relax us after giving us a good time.
Just because sex can come with a lot of problems it don't mean to give up on it. Instead it gives us more of a chance to really enjoy sex when everything's right at least for that moment or night.
Sex should have its limitations due to age and other things but it also should not be so hidden by most except prostitutes and others of that such. But perhaps it's that secretiveness of sex and talking about it that intrigues us and makes us want it even more. Like when a kid wants a toy or a teen wants to go to a party and a parent says no so the kid or teen wants what ever it is they want even more then they did to start with.
Sex is everywhere and people usually don't deny that in fact they mention it. Sex is in movies, TV shows, poster boards, music, magazines and we along with talking use these things to help us learn more about sex cause we can't help but want to feed our urge. But these advertisements and such of sex is mostly all not real.
But what is real obviously is the urge for sex but even more that we all get into sex and for the majority of us we all do it. But we like to hide it from parents, friends, even our own partner and mostly strangers. Because as soon as the subject of sex comes up especially in public names start getting used even when they don't fit because when its not a fake movie or whatever and real we take it as a sin except what it can give us or what it might not.
So in order to not get in trouble or looked bad upon we hide that we have sex and have the urge to want to. And because of this only ourselves keep us from having sex. And all of us secretly wait for the other partner to make the first move for sex so they themselves might not look bad or at least so bad. But if both are waiting or more often wanting the other person to make the first move how will that allow ourselves to give us what we want and fill the urges we have, that sex drive that's not going to just go away unless from some kind of rare medical disease.
And us denying our needs and wants is what drives us to have sex with others and there for spreading diseases and causing divorces and just overall breaking peoples hearts because it tends to influence people to want to go else where then their partner hoping to keep it in secrete and not have to worry about making the first move or the wrong one. Sex does not do all this. Nether does the urge. The only thing that does is we denying our needs and wants and then making bad decisions.
Should we be denying ourselves of sex? We all can try to deny our interests in sex but we all know we have them so why try. Talking about it and I don't mean sex of actors and other people but each one of us and our partner is who we need to be telling our sexual interests or non interests for that matter it will really help keep the fire in relationships so to speak.
