What options do you have when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom?
If you are tired of the “same ole sex” with your spouse then it is time to start spicing things up again. A little bit of experimenting may be just the right antidote. Experimenting in the bedroom has proved to be very successful for many married couples. Let's hope it has the same affect on yours.
As much as you know there is a need to spice things up in your bedroom, you may be unsure of exactly how to do this. Don't worry! Below I will outline a few options that are sure to bring the fire back into your bedroom.
Try something new
If you are tired of having the “same ole sex” then STOP having the “same ole sex”. Throw a new position in the mix. This simple yet very effective method can and most likely will increase your level of pleasure. There are oh so many ways you can have sex. Expand your horizons. Start spicing up your sex life TODAY.Add in a sex toy or two
Ok, this may be a little far fetched for many but don't knock it until you try it. You have to be open minded. You want to experience ultimate pleasure so if a sex toy does that for you and your mate then use a sex toy. You have a lot of selections when it comes to choosing a toy. Get online and look around. It's best to shop online so you can have privacy. Most online companies mail your product in an unmarked box so no one knows what you have ordered. Check to make sure they do that before you order. Watch pornographic videos
The right video can make things really steamy in the bedroom. Don't be afraid to bring porn into your bedroom. Don't just throw it on your partner, suggest it to them first. If they agree, you can both sit down and pick out a video together. Get something that will arouse both of you. Sometimes a porn can even help you find a new position you and your partner might be interesting in trying.
You can also get instructional videos. These videos probably won't get you aroused but they will show you a few new positions. Use lingerie and costumes
Dressing up sexy and putting on a costume is a great way to bring a different type of pleasure into the bedroom. This goes hand and hand with role playing. If your wife loves a man in uniform then you dress up as a service man or a fireman. If your husband loves the way a woman looks in a waitress outfit then you put that on for him. This makes for the ultimate turn on. Be each others fantasies. You have so many options when it comes to role playing. For example, you can pretend your wife is the maid and you come home from work and give it to her nice and hard before your wife gets home. You can pretend you are trying to hurry up before your wife gets home. This will hightened your level of pleasure. Trust me. Just use your imagination.
As you can see, you have several different options when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom. I have only listed 4, there are many many more. For other experimenting ideas check out 100 Great Sex Games For Couples By Michael Webb. The games in this book will help improve your foreplay and lovemaking which will in turn help you have explosive passionate sex.
