Wile I was with my ex…
For you this seams so natural. It is just like talking about a funny story from childhood, but to him….
In his mind he will picture you having sex with another man. Men can't stand the competition at this level. They are the best with out any further commentaries. Ah and do not tell him about your erotic fantasy with Brad Pitt except if you are Jennifer Aniston.
Down with the pants! Up with the gun!
Ok, he declares that he likes a woman to have a open mind, but too much initiative from your side will make him feel uncomfortable. Don't forget the communication is the key but do not rush with the vibrator from the first night!
The idea to see together a little porn movie is again not too brilliant because he might think he is not able to excite you enough and don't forget that the actors because of the special effects have it bigger.
So how you can see if he is the more naughty type? Before going to bed, wile kissing try to squeeze his ass and if he looks weird at you means you have to give him a bit more time.