Why the Clitoris is Hidden

Your body is the vehicle for your soul in this life time. The same breasts that your mate touches during sex are the same breasts that can sustain the life of your child. The lips that kiss your child good night, your mother hello, and your best friend good-bye are the same lips that passionately kisses your man. There is no separation from you and your body. When you have unprotected sex with a man, you are not just hurting yourself but everyone who loves you. Your body is precious; it is the vessel that holds your precious treasures. You set your own price. What are you worth?

You meet a man in a bar. Tom Cruise and Denzel Washington on their best days could not compete with his charisma and physical attractiveness. His smile warms the room and you can not believe that this man wants to get to know you better. You are a liberated woman armed with birth control pills and condoms. You don't prescribe to societal ideologies to suppress female sexuality. You know that you are not a slut, tramp, whore or being promiscuous. You are in touch with your sexuality and understand that women have sexual needs and desires just like men. He wants you now. You long to feel his broad shoulders holding you. You anticipate what his kisses taste like. It is what it is, who cares if he never calls. You follow him to a little room in the back of the bar, within two minutes his body succumbs to the pleasure of entering your body.

Being totally honest with yourself, do you think you would have had an orgasm within two minutes of sexual intercourse? Do you think an orgasm for an orgasm is an even exchange when there are no strings attached in a sexual encounter between a man and a woman? There are exceptions to the rule, but in the majority of cases do you think the typical man provides foreplay or tries to find the clitoris when it does not directly affect his ability to receive sexual satisfaction from a woman's body. If a man never touches, seeks, or stimulates the clitoris… he will be able to achieve an orgasm through sexual intercourse. Some women are able to achieve a vaginal orgasm, but the majority are not unless the clitoris is stimulated directly or indirectly.

Intercourse is a very sexually fulfilling act, but why do you think the clitoris is one to two inches away from the vaginal entrance? A woman does not need to achieve an orgasm to become impregnated. Have you ever wondered what the biological function of the clitoris is? The only biological purpose of the clitoris is to give the woman sexual pleasure. Some psychologists say that its purpose is to create an emotional bond between the male and the female. Think about sex with your male partner. Who has the most orgasms during sex… you or him? Why do you think that it is biologically easier for most men to have an orgasm as opposed to most women?

If a man does not ejaculate this would interfere with the perpetuation of the human species. If men were having orgasms at the same rate as women, I believe that there would be a drastic reduction in the number of babies born around the world almost to the point human extinction. Men are biologically designed to ejaculate as easily and quickly as possible because it is a necessity to propel the human gene pool into the future. Women on the other hand can have baby after baby and never experience an orgasm or enjoy sex in the least bit. Women are biologically designed to have sex whether she is physically aroused or not. In the event that a woman is raped, except in rare cases, she will not experience an orgasm. This is nature's way of detaching a woman's sexual psychological health and pleasure from sexual abuse and exploitation.

The position of the clitoris allows women to detach their sexual pleasure from unhealthy sexual encounters. This allows her to objectively analyze her male suitors' long term commitment to the relationship and determine if his sexual technique is an indicator of his ability to be a protector and provider. If a man is a selfish lover, does this mean that he will be selfish economically and emotionally? The clitoris has no biologically designed function for the survival of the human species. A woman's breasts are capable of nurturing her baby. Her vagina contains the urinary tract and is the birth canal for her children. The woman's body is the receiver and giver of life.

The woman's clitoris is a gift given to her by the Creator. It is the only part of her body that does not belong to survival of herself or others but symbolizes her wholeness as a complete being. Some researchers have claimed that women have a G-spot inside of her vagina that gives a more intense orgasm than the clitoris. This is an attempt by a patriarchal society to lead women into believing that the male holds the magic wand that completes her deepest pleasures and desires. They surpass the obvious pleasure zone and go searching deep inside of her to find a spot that only he has the key to open. Many women feel inadequate when they are unable to achieve orgasm through intercourse. This is why more women than men fake orgasms to appease their partner's ego. A man has access to his penis and can stimulate himself manually at will. Why would nature place a woman's pleasure zone in an area that is difficult for her to find? Why would nature place a woman's pleasure zone in an area that is controversial as to whether or not it even exists at all?

A woman's clitoris exists to let her know that she is not a baby vessel and sperm receptacle. She is a person whose is capable of not only giving pleasure but receiving it as well. The clitoris is hidden because it is not meant to be exploited or abused but, lovingly persuaded and encouraged to peak from under her of shell of protection. If a man is emotionally invested in a woman's well being he will look for her. He will make it a point to learn what she likes and dislikes. He will say the right words that excite her to come out and play. He will want her to know his voice and his touch. A woman's clitoris is her secret garden that belongs to her and her alone, but the man who loves her makes this home.