I got a joke just a few days ago. A friend asked me what was the easiest way to kill a man, and I didn't know the answer. He told me that the easiest way was to let a man think what a woman was thinking.
Though it is a joke, I know that what he is trying to say is that women are more unpredictable than men. The fact is that women hide their feelings deeper than men before they become couples. A woman would try to use something to protect herself being hurt on dating. What she could do is to build a great wall in her inner world, for she knows that she has less power than a man.
This kind of activity makes a woman seems unpredictable. Actually, some women are thinking that men are more unpredictable than women, for they want to know men more in order to find if they can be perfect match. The reason is the same. The men they meet hide their feeling deep in their mind; also this is a reason why women like bad guys more. The bad guys pretend to be frank and bold on many issues that cause women's interest. They don't want to hide their feelings.
However, since women are on the lower hand when they on dates, they have to make them seemingly unpredictable. Once their defending line is broken by the attacks from men, men would see that women are lovely and they are not so unpredictable at all.
Another reason is that unpredictable women have more charming power to attract men. Also, men find that women tend to be more sexy and attractive if they seem unpredictable. Men would be attracted by such kind of women, and such kind of women would win the upper hand on dates.
Sometimes, women try to give hints to men, but they don't want to make it clear. That's why we hear some women complain that their men are stupid. Men are careless about some of the hints given to them; meanwhile they are trying to understand what women want from them. Therefore, they think that women are more unpredictable.
When a woman say “No” to a man, she may mean “Yes”; when she says “maybe”, she may think that she has to say “No” to the man. That's the nature of women on dating. It is very interesting to know about it.
