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One parent's concerns about children using cell phones.

The final status symbol is the cell phone. Not to have a cell phone relegates you to the class of the have nots. To have a plain phone without ring tones, call forwarding, caller i.d and a list of preferred contacts is to be on the fringe of the rich who have all those features and more.

I remember in 1995 when I purchased my first cell phone, the static, the out of area and the multitude of problems. I was content if I had been able to reach my calling party. And, I wasn't going cheap either. I was paying a few hundred dollars for the phone and extra for the service.

Now eleven years later cell phones are transformed into adjunct telephones with clear and international calling capabilities. I know I had to use my telephone to reach my daughter in England on her cell phone. The range wasn't a problem and we spoke for as long as we wanted without interruption.

But are cell phones becoming too important to very young people who have more than enough distractions as it is? Are these phones giving some youth who are troubled access to illegal ways of making money through fast contacts on the cell phone? Why would a mother or father agree to pay for a cell phone for a child in grade school? How did parents even important and working parents contact their children in school before the advent of cell phones?

Innovation and changing and improving communication devices are an important part of our culture, but parents isolating themselves from contact with principals, their secretaries, and other individuals whom their children are making contact with each day is not beneficial in my mind.

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Comments (2)
#1 by Matt, Dec 16, 2007
Are you serious? You pay taxes as I do for public schools. There are enough distractions keeping our kids from learning. This leash that parents are attatching to their children is going to come back to haunt us eventually. When you decide to spend hundreds of dollars on a toy for your kid, then let them take it to school for their friends to steal or play with, you are trusting your kid with more than your parents ever would have trusted you with. Your parents would have told you that they were not anyone else's parents and you are too young to be trusted with such an expensive responsibility. You would have been crushed for a few days but you would get over it and your parents would have done their job. They are children and it is your job to raise them to be responsible adults. Just for a second, quit trying to be their friend and start treating them as they are. Minors; they do not know how to make decisions. They do not have the comprehension of how hard you work for the money that you are spending on this toy. And yes it is a toy. If you ever need to reach them in case of an emergency, be responsible and know where they are. Other than that, they just text eachother in class. It is a toy to them. Think about it this way. If you holler up the stairs for them to take out the trash, how quickly do they respond? How much easier do you think it will be to ignore a phone call? They may try to sell you on the fact that it is in case of an emergency, but it is a TOY!
#2 by NoraNick, Dec 30, 2007
How nice I actually thought that I was making the same points as you make in your comments. Please be sure and read some of my other articles thanks.
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