That question is answered simply- we know what innate potential we possess. Realized or not, we both know that we are upper level males, that we are in fact on a quest to the top of the food chain. The fact that we are forced to languish down here in the midst of "undesirables" is, well insulting. Don't misunderstand me, this isn't arrogance, its simple self awareness. Its a universal statement. You know you deserve steak, but people keep trying to bring you bologna. Do you stand for it? Of course not. You have a right to demand what you deserve, correct? So then how do I explain the lack of acceptable women as per my tastes? Again the answer is easily derived.
While there are more women numerically, the proportion of quality women is less than what women find in their search for a quality male. So if women have a 1 in 10 chance of selecting a male from the upper limit, a man's chances of finding a quality female that he is compatible with are down around 1 in 20. (The math will be explained later).
This means that if there were only 200 women, a male from the upper limit is going to have to deal with 180 women who are not up to par in order to get to the 20 that are. For the sake of simplicity, I wont consider cross referenced samples, where like doesn't attract like. All of this is to say while quality males may be in shorter supply, the fact that the overwhelming majority of women are incompatible with my standards makes finding a quality women no less difficult. Both genders have a tough path to take. So here's how it all comes together.
My friend and I voiced concerns that aren't unlike those voiced by countless other youths who feel as though they deserve the best. I mean honestly, who wakes up and says "I want a mediocre partner"? Very few people I would imagine. The problem, as I see it, is that for men, we have to wade through countless misfits until we find something remotely close to what we desire, even though we know she exists. As for women its that they may have to settle for something just short of what they really want in a man. Its not that any of it is impossible, its just that the numbers don't favor the easy going.
Clearly everything stated here is subjective, and this isn't really scientific at all. The formulas I used described the situations as best I understood how to do so, but that is not an end all. The only things that lie more than man or woman are numbers. Statistical manipulation is to be expected. Hopefully you could follow me okay, I'm kind of at work so its not as fluid as I might like. For the nice guys, keep going. They say nice guys finish last. If you're still running after everyone else stops, you probably went farther than the rest of them. Secondly, I doubt your wife will complain about her nice guy finishing last. (Take that how you want it.)
Ladies... I don't really have any advice. Just know that in time you ultimately will get that which you are after. The thing about that ten percent is that people move into it all the time. Maybe he'll show up soon enough.
That's my spill, hopefully it helps... Later.
