Why it is that women say no to men? This is not uncommon if you can see that the man is not handsome enough to win the woman's favor but what if he is indeed handsome or shall we say someone who possesses a face that women should adore and still the woman turns him down, what could be the reason?
This is the question that I have been reflecting for quite a while now. I saw women turn down men who are just perfect and yet the woman turn him down. I ask around why, I have my own opinion but I really wanted to hear what these men really think of the reason for such dislike.
The answers are almost the same. Majority is because the man wasn't able to keep to their physical standard. Although they also agree with me that when the thing called love comes in their way the physical aspect is just thrown out and forgotten, sometimes even self respect is neglected. But at the time where women are still searching, the reason of their choice is mostly based on the standards they have set for whoever will come their way and make the mistake of courting them. So basically a man who courts and wasn't able to keep up to that standard is simply turned down and left alone and hurt, especially those who keeps their hopes high because the relationship can be traced back to the times where they are close because he was treated as one of her friends. In other words love should come in first before these women will be able to throw away these standards. Some were able to make compromise well, they thought they made a compromise but the truth is they just simply ignore whatever standards they have because of love. For those who are physically gifted and still get busted. The reason could be something deeper, it could be the attitude or they wanted love and the man is full of himself to be able to give it even to the woman they courted.
What about men, what do they feel about it? Basically men and women have the same standards, though some would argue that they wanted something deeper from a girl than the physical aspect, most likely, physical attributes is a great reason for them to court. So what happen if they are turned down? A male friend answered, he would get hurt to the extent of not wanting to eat or things like that, because of the pain, and not to mention he shade tears. But also he said that if it happens that he is not really in love, he would usually get by easily.
With these things in mind, I came into conclusion that men and women are the same. Both set standards for the other to keep up and as a measuring tool or basis for approval. Both plays around each other's feelings but in the end would surrender to the thing called love. No matter what is the circumstances, in most relationship love prevail, no matter what the end will be, for the people in love what matters now is what they feel and they will follow it to the end.
