'People who try to put you down'
You ever notice that the people who try to put you down always have short comings of their own. They always say thing that are hurtful because of their own short comings.
They will go out of their way to make you feel like you are less of a man or woman because of their own short comings regardless of how you feel or how hard you try to talk to them or tell them how you feel . One day they are your friend and the next they are saying things to you to hurt your ego.
I've noticed that these people are hardest to please and generally they are loud and obnoxious.
On the outside world they generally appear kind trust worthy and honest and usually they are to others, because they don't know those people well enough to put them down but if they did it would be the same problem, leaving others to say “I would hate to be his or her wife”.
That leaves me to my conclusion in which case come down to relationships because that man or woman suffers the most. He or she becomes worthless ,ugly, selfish, and hated and if you are not a strong individual you will take a massive blow, you may even cry when called out-side of your name wondering if your mate ever loved you or not. You're compelled to answer questions of your whereabouts and yet they still don't believe you. People in relationships who try to put you down think they wear the pants in the partner-ship and once that is established then its hard to challenge that person , so I say you must first love your self and keep God first and all things will be possible.