Every one says that it's wrong to date somebody that's older then you, I don't know if it's true or not and honestly I don't care. Everyone should date whoever they feel like it even if it's wrong in the eyes of other people; I mean they are not the ones that are dating you or your partner. Yes, it may be wrong but if you don't learn that on your own how are you supposed to learn and make a difference later in your life, if everyone is telling you how to live it?
I have seen friends even family members that date people that are older or younger then they are, and I have also seen other people judge them for it. The only thing I see is that they are happy and that they are learn things from that relationship, and if they are happy why shouldn't I be for them. There are people now and days that have kids but don't understand them if you are dating somebody younger you can learn from them and end up having a better relationship with your kids. You can also see life the way young adults see it. Pay attention when they are talking because some think you don't care if you look lost, and it's what a young adult needs. If you are over the age of 30 and are dating somebody that's younger then you make sure they are over 18 so you don't have problems with the law.
If you're dating somebody that's older then you, don't lie to them about your age because you can get them in trouble with the law. If your young and dating somebody older try not to sound too childish because they don't like it, don't annoy them either because after a while they will think they are better off with out you. Don't sound to obsess with them because you're going to freak them out. Pay attention to the little details because all do they are worthless to you, to your partner it's something wonderful. If you pay attention to your partner you may see the way they see life you can also learn to be a mature and a responsible person.
The most important thing you need to make your relationship work is communication, honesty, trust, space, and a bit of love. If you don't feel any of does then why would you make the other person miserable? They don't deserve it and neither do you. But both of you should try to make the best of it and have fun without caring who approves and who doesn't. Just remember one thing "Do things without regretting them, because at some point is just what you wanted".
