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What Do Women Want?

Most men may think that women are very difficult to deal with as they think that the woman heart is like a needle underneath the seabed. Men find themselves hardly able to understand what women think and what women want from them. Maybe this is a tough lesson that men have to learn in their lifetime.

In fact, women are not as complex subjects as men may think they are. They only need very simple things. They just want men to praise them, to support their mentality, spiritual and basic needs. Regardless of a man's financial and social status, women just hope to receive more attention, love and care from the men. Here are some clues for men to understand more about women:

  1. He does not have to spend great deal of money on buying presents for his girlfriend or wife. When he wants to give her a present, he should show her his sincerity. In view of most women, the best present would be a very simple, creative and meaningful one.
  2. Most women care what men think of their appearance and beauty. Therefore, they attempt to beautify themselves and hope that they will be praised and received more attention from the men. In this case, he can say, “Your hairstyle looks nice,” “You look nice with a red dress,” “You look beautiful today.” These words should come naturally from his heart to show his sincerity, and he will find these words powerful enough to make her feel happy and motivated. This in turn will maintain a close relationship between both parties.
  3. Women also give priority to their careers. At the same time, they hope their husbands or boyfriends pay attention to their jobs too. Whenever his wife is talking about the affairs that happened in her workplace, he should listen attentively and patiently. He should not show boredom or keep on grumbling at her. Once he has a very good communication with his wife, his love and relationship with his wife will be maintained.
  4. Men are usually more interested in logical, argumentative, and debatable topics. Therefore, they tend to interrupt their wives' or girlfriends' conversation, hoping that women will understand their signals. Nevertheless, women usually expect men to listen to them, but not always to give out ideas or opinions. A smart husband should let the wife finish her story, as this is very important to maintain the marriage life.
  5. When selecting men, women consider many criteria. Though they may fall in love with the men, they will always keep on asking, “Are they reliable?” Therefore, men should care for their personal appearance such as their hair, clothes, and etiquette. Women always expect their guys to be generous, good-hearted, reliable, and caring, but not timid, stingy or selfish.
  6. Women hope that men may become their best companions in life. So, men should share ideas, opinions, and feelings with them. Men make big mistakes when they try to cheat women. Do not try to cheat your wife or girlfriend, as you will never gain confidence from them.
  7. Women expect their husbands or boyfriends to respect their pride, opinions and choices that they have made. He should be generous to accept her shortcomings, and at the same time give appropriate praises to her strong points.
  8. He should not feel shy to say “I love you” to his wife or girlfriend. No matter how many times she asks, “Do you love me?” He should keep on repeating “I love you” to her to show that he cares about her. “I love you” is a very powerful lubricant to nourish the love between them.
  9. He should always remember her birthday or anniversary, and give her a present. In this way, she will think that her existence is highly appreciated.
  10. He should not ignore her by watching television or playing video games. She will get bored and believe that her existence is not appreciated.
  11. He should not stare closely at other women when talking to her. Also, he should not compliment other women' strong points to her. Women always expect their partner to concentrate on their presence, appearance and feelings.
  12. When she is on her menstrual period, she will lose her temper easily. He should help her feelings with an uplifting word. He should not show a sour face in front of her.
  13. He should console her when she is facing problems. He should not say nasty words that will hurt her feelings.
  14. He should go hand in hand with his partner to face life. He should not reject her due to her sickness, bad appearance and handicap. He should secure his love to her till the end of his life.

To make it simple, a woman needs a good companion, a caring lover and an understanding marriage partner.

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Comments (7)
#1 by Judy Sheldon-Walker, Dec 16, 2007
Chan, very good tips. You must be taking up marriage counseling too, as your advice would solve many marital disputes. Thank you.
#2 by CHAN LEE PENG, Dec 16, 2007
Thank you, Judy.
#3 by Anne Lyken-Garner, Dec 17, 2007
Great tips, although can I please add that men and women should not wait for their partner to ask, 'do you love me?' they should just say it.

I like the bit about showing attention in the presence of other people. One of the first things I noticed about my husband when we met (and were just friends) was that he always only ever had eyes for me, even when I was noticing scantilly clad women all around us, he seemed not to notice them. I think that this makes someone feel very special and should be practised by both genders.
#4 by ross lipsky, May 17, 2008
what a crock of crap \. just sounds like another way to pussify your man into submission. all those attributes must be observed and practiced by both people to work not just one.
#5 by Tie Ginn, Jun 1, 2008
Despite the last comment, I am empowered to being a better son, brother, and even father to my growing daughter who needs proper demonstration of a gentleman, not a jerk. Thank you for your insight and God Bless.
#6 by Garry, Jun 7, 2008
I REALLY LIKE IT, BECAUSE I REALLY BELIEVE THAT IS WHEN US MEN BECOME TRUE MEN!!! BUT WHAT DO I DO WHEN A WOMAN REALLY HAVE STRONG LOVING FEELINGS FOR ME, BUT I DON'T HAVE STRONG FEELINGS FOR HER AT THIS TIME??
#7 by DJ, Jun 7, 2008
Be honest with your feelings, sharing them with upmost respect, admiration, and concern for her. Affirm positive things about her and what things you like about her, but be honest to share the differences between you and her that will not lead to a successful marriage.

Remember, maintain a friendship through and after it all.
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