To become the best at what ever you do in both mind and physical connection. You need to be able to make simple calculations of information that is happening around you and everyone else on a daily basis. You absorb vast amounts of information through your five senses and most of it is discarded because you simply can't process it. The key is to become acute to them all. With this mind frame you will start seeing your life, and the people around you in a different perspective. It's a powerful combination of natural evolution.
Visual
This is your most powerful tool in obtaining a sense of what you're actually capable of. Harness your visual sense to read body language, movement, positioning, colour and light. If you can teach yourself the art of visual stimulation through interpreting another person's body language. You will become a big player in any social setting.
Focus on detail such as facial expression. With this I mean eye movement and positioning, eyebrow patterns, rapid eyelid gestures, raising or lowering of the forehead, lips, cheeks and nose. Everyone uses different patterns of movement depending on what they are talking about or simply doing. To understand why they are doing it, will tell you the answer to question without even having to ask the question.
Body posture is another mechanism for visual stimulation, follow the walk, stance and hand movements. Connect your display of positioning and try to interact for social acceptance.
Everyone interacts and reacts differently, depending on how they perceive themselves internally.
Study people and look beyond the norms of everyday reality.
Touch
To touch another brings with it a massive chemistry of connection. When you touch someone on a friendship level you enforce your verbal recognition. A shoulder tap, handshake, pat or cuddle heightens the mechanical acceptance of joy. To touch a new person tends to open up a vulnerable path, and a sense of security is instantly opened up. To touch a loved one, such as family or your partner is powerful and brings with it all emotional experiences.
A touch used accurately in the correct circumstances can open up or defuse a situation. The key is to know when to use it. This can be achieved through what information your visually attaining.
Taste and Smell
Science has taught us that your taste is linked in with your sense of smell. In fact you actually taste your sense of smell. These senses tell us information with out us being aware of it. They signal danger and stress and make us remember locations, or tell us when someone with a distinctive smell is close by. Smells can also make us feel relaxed, feel funny or be disgusted. The taste and smell of a mint can make you feel more confident as you know other people you talk too will be picking up on the same pleasant vapors.
Sound
Sometimes in conversation we only hear or pick out information that we want to hear. Or the fact is the information received is sometimes muffled or part understood, due to accent, pronunciation and the language barrier. You can train your mind to slow down sound waves and pick out information so you understand exactly what is being asked. Once you get acute to this process you will find yourself repeating the sentence over again in your mind to hear it for final confirmation. This is a powerful tool and can be best practiced over the phone or on walkie-talkie. To hear a question the first time will bring a more efficient response.
Use your senses wisely and be aware of what they are capably of. You can have more control over any given situation. Once your more aware of what you're picking up, you can all most feel them working as one.
