In choosing a hairstyle for their wedding day, many brides of course go for glamorous up do's that are meant to complement their dress. Some of these efforts are more effective than others are. So -let's talk hair - and what is the right look for you on your wedding day.
There has been a strange trend in the last few years for a high, offset part followed by the hair being sleeked down behind the ears in a low chignon. This can be an attractive look IF YOU HAVE THE FACE SHAPE to wear your hair like this. To be frank, over 50% of the brides who choose this look DO NOT look good in this style. It is not only your face shape, but also the length of your neck and the set of your ears and eyes that make this particular look a winner. Many brides are severely disappointed when they see their pictures and come to the realization that instead of looking sophisticated, they have more a deer in the headlights look.
When you consider your hairstyle, you must consider not only the dress you choose to wear but also how you naturally wear your hair, the wedding environment, the weather, and the time factor.
Short hair lightly curled and sprayed can look wonderful with all types of veils. Sleek pageboys highlighted with a unique hair ornament along the side of the face are visually stunning. Even a ponytail can be worn high or low, sleek or tousled to make you look good as well as comfortable. While curly tendrils can look dated, on a young bride they can still look good and as an appropriate offset to her youthfulness.
Instead of opting for one hairstyle for your entire day, work with your stylist to create a look that goes with your headpiece and veil, and one that that will go well with the reception. A traditional up look might be easily modified with the removal of a few hairpins, or a simple comb out and the replacement of a formal tiara with a glittering hair accessory might be all you need to achieve an attractive, wearable, and dance-in-able hairstyle. If you are nervous about do it yourself, invite your hairstylist to meet you at your reception if possible and pay her or him to change your hair for your reception. If not, have them work with one of your wedding attendants or your mother to help you achieve a quick change.
Whatever style you choose, keep in mind that it will take more time to do on your wedding day. This is one of the mysterious laws of wedding; you never will have the time you think you have. Avoid frazzled nerves and hair by choosing the less is more rule. Keep your hair simple, smile more, and be the beautiful woman you already ARE instead of a celebrity or fashion magazine look alike.
