The ten things that most women do which drives themselves crazy. Learn to keep your sanity.
Constantly worrying about every little thing. Paranoia is an evil little bug festering in the back of every woman's mind. "do we have enough money this month, does my outfit make me look fat, am I going to get fired, do I worry too much?" Yes, women even worry about worry. In order to save your sanity ladies, put an end to the chronic paranoia. Consider having a cup of chamomile, instead of a double mocha latte.
Working themselves to death. There is no reason that a human being should be moving every waking moment. As human beings we are given around 80 years to live, take advantage of them; you have time tomorrow...
Persistently believing they're obese, or even mildly over weight. I have never met a man who enjoys a woman with a bony back side. Also, just an FYI, of course you're going to "jiggle" in places other than the breasts. You need body fat to survive. Stop the never-ending diet.
Believing that every single failed relationship was their fault. Yes, as women, we can be controlling, unrealistic, and insensitive. However, men can as well. The key to "getting over" this poisonous relationship is to realize that fault is weighted equally on both sides. don't play the blame game, but do be willing to accept the other parties involvement is this failure.
Honestly believing that every man they have a relationship with is cheating. Chances are, you've had two out of four relationships in which you were cheated on. You mustn't forget the other half that did remain faithful. For as many "bad" men as there are out in the world, there is an equal number of good ones. Which leads to number six...
Settling for the men that they know are trouble. We've all dated someone we absolutely knew was the talk of the town, and we'd conversated with at least three people they'd slept with. Despite all of our reasoning, and better judgment, we still placed our selves into one of these self esteem shattering relationships. Stop right now. If you meet a suave ladies man at a party, and the women standing next to you spews out the dirty details of their recent one night stand, let the sly guy pass. He's not worth it.
Believing that all advice your mother has to give you is 100% accurate, no questions asked. Women always believe that what their mother's say is right. Wrong. Your mother's relationship was not your relationship, and no, she doesn't know what it's like. No, your mother cannot tell you that you look good when you're trying on clothes, she's at least twenty years older than you. There comes a point in adulthood when trusting your gut instinct is safer than trusting your mother's advice. I once confided in my own mother, and told her that I suspected my man of cheating. She told me to wait on my fiances bed until he came home, cuddle and kiss him, and then cut his finger off when he least expected it. That way he'd never be tempted again. I know women who'd have listen to my mother, and be in jail right now. don't always listen to your mothers ladies.
Constantly competing with a co-worker to be the best. You don't have to be faster than Ms. I've just downed a pot of coffee, and you don't have to be more attractive than Ms. I spent my entire pay check on this designer outfit and can't afford groceries. Work is not always the best place to be vainly competitive, and chances are, you'll end up hating your job. don't make going to work any more dreadful than it is. Just go in there Monday morning, do the best you can on the little sleep you do get, and remember that you are better than those chic office women; you're more beautiful inside than they could ever be.
Worrying themselves sick over their age, and what they look like. Once you're reached your middle ages, you're not going to have the skin of a ten year old, and you're not supposed to. Women are trained to believe that they must fit these certain standards of beauty. The most beautiful women I've met had crow's feet, a long gray and brown hair. She had a smile to die for, and age spots. Your beauty never changes, time is what changed.
Forgetting about what they do have, and focusing on what they don't. Unfortunately, most people are driven by their desires, but it's easier for a women to be consumed by them. In our materialistic society, prices are rising all the time. The competition between the rich and middle class is expanding, and we're mercilessly subjecting ourselves to this torment. Yes, you want the flashy fifty thousand dollar sports car, or the fifteen dollar lipstick, but that doesn't mean you have to have it. Be thankful for the car you do have, so you can go to work and earn your checks, and buy the things you can afford. Be happy you have place to live, food on the table, and a Walmart near so you can get the discount make up you do look good in. Remember that everything you do have could be gone tomorrow, and be thankful that they're not.
