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Are You a Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty or Timeless Beauty?

There are three types of beauty and personality traits. Which type of beauty are you, a Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty or Timeless Beauty?

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Why do we as women go through so much to pain in order for men to look at us? Is it because we seek external approval to validate the quality of our physical existence? Do we feel that if we are perfect enough, beautiful enough we will then be worthy enough to attract and keep true love? This article describes three types of beauty and their personality traits. Which type of beauty are you, a Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty or Timeless Beauty?

Alpha Male

Who are alpha males? Hugh Hefner, Donald Trump, Michael Jordan famous wealthy athletes such as Kobe Bryant; movie stars such as Denzel Washington and any man with wealth, power or prestige. Show me a man who is extraordinarily wealthy, powerful and / or famous, and I'll show you a man who is 99.9% likely to be unfaithful in a committed relationship. Men without these qualities are also unfaithful. However with the alpha male he is at a disadvantage because women are constantly throwing themselves at him, even when they are trying their very best to be faithful to their mates. The alpha male is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Humans and their nearest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or standing aside when the alpha challenges.

Canines also show deference to the alpha pair in their pack, by allowing them to be the first to eat and, usually, the only pair to mate. The status of alpha is generally achieved by means of superior physical prowess. Due to advances in technology in an industrialized society physical prowess is not necessary to be an Alpha Male, ask Woody Allen or Bill Gates. Listed below are some of the characteristics of the human alpha male.

  • When a man is extraordinary wealthy it doesn't matter how physically attractive he is because his wealth is a babe magnet
  • Women will always throw themselves at men who are wealthy, powerful, successful, or famous in order to improve their standard of living
  • Most alpha males even when they are in committed relationships, will seek sexual intimacy outside of the committed relationship
  • Most alpha males have difficulty interconnecting sex, love and fidelity into one package
  • Alpha males generally believe that they deserve to have more than one woman.
  • Alpha males not only collect expensive cars, guns, cigars and antiques, their collection also include sexual relationships with beautiful women
  • Having a bevy of beautiful women is encouraged and expected behavior of wealthy successful men by society in general.

Alpha males need Barbie Dolls in order to maintain their ultra masculine male dominate status in society. Barbie Dolls have the ultra female characteristics that compliment their superior male dominate status.

Barbie Doll Characteristics include:

  • Barbie dolls are plastic. You must spend money on cosmetic surgery to maintain your youthful appearance at all cost. Implants, liposuction, rhinoplasty, breasts lifts, cellulite removal, botox injections, chemical peels and other techniques to maintain or obtain your outer appearance are necessary in order to compete for his affection and attention from other beautiful women. Ask Christie Brinkley, Vanessa Williams, Halle Barry and Kobe Bryant's wife. You are never beautiful and perfect enough to keep a man who has a roaming spirit. The testosterone that makes him powerful in the business world typically makes him weak in monogamous relationships.
  • Barbie dolls do not talk. Alpha men need a woman who is not going to complain about his long work hours, time that he spends with his “boys,” his relationship with other women and his lack of participation in domestic matters.
  • Barbie dolls smile all the time. The alpha male needs a woman who doesn't reveal her feelings of unhappiness in the relationship. She is going to smile when she learns that he has conceived a child outside of the committed relationship for public display and media press.
  • Barbie dolls can be placed on the shelf when the alpha male is finished playing with her. When he falls in love with a younger, hipper, new model with fuller lips, he doesn't have to worry about the long term affects of breaking of her heart.
  • Barbie dolls need and seek material accessories. The alpha male knows that as long as he is willing to buy her big, fancy homes, expensive cars and jewelry; he doesn't have to worry about being faithful and loyal to the relationship. Barbie dolls need a lot of expensive monetary upkeep. The alpha male has the money to give her whatever she needs because it validates his wealth and prestige.
  • Barbie dolls can travel or move at a moment's notice. She has a travel case that comes with her because she does not have a career or goals that can not be sacrificed or thwarted at a moment's notice to accompany her alpha male. She changes locations based on the needs of her alpha male.
  • Barbie dolls are always perfect and gorgeous, even naked. Alpha males need trophy wives and arm pieces to accompany them to fancy events. Dieting, exercising and maintaining an impeccable physical appearance is essential to remain attractive to the Alpha male. The Barbie doll's desirability is based on her ability to keep the alpha male sexually interested and satisfied due to the competition and availability of other dolls.
  • The Barbie dolls youth and unchanging beauty is her greatest asset. She has a short shelf life. She must have as many children as quickly as possible to insure her financial future in old age when she is no longer attractive or able to reproduce.
  • Barbie dolls don't ask questions. She is not going to question the alpha male about their future together, his assets or his Swedish bank account. She doesn't question pre-nuptial agreements because she knows that her time is limited in the relationship because she will not be able to compete with the newer models and limited editions that are marketed each year.
  • Barbie dolls are hollow on the inside because they must have extreme low-self esteem in order to put up with the Alpha male's malarkey. The alpha male's presence in her life validates her external existence. She believes that her external, physical appearance is the depth of who she is.

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#1 by A. T., Aug 29, 2008
Great article!
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