It's nothing more than a one-night stand. It's not love. If you think otherwise, then you are dumb, dumber, and dumbest. Guys who practice one-night stands will tell you anything his penis feels you might want to hear. And unless he is horny, and the sex was worth another and yet another night of sex, you will not hear from him again.
The focus of this article is, In this day and age, why do some females continue to submit to one-night stands? Did he look very fine to you while you were under the influence of some drug or alcohol? Did he talk the charming talk? Did he tell you everything you wanted to hear? Was it hard for you to stop yourself from falling for him? Did he say you were the girl of his dreams? Maybe his dialogue included future plans? Were you dumb enough to believe him? More important, what made you think you wanted to go to bed with him on the first night? Perhaps you were feeling as horny as he was?
With this kind of behavior, one could only imagine how they feel the morning after the one-night encounter? Did you wonder, "Why didn't he call to talk some more about our future plans?" Twenty-four hours later and he still has not called. You feel dumber and wonder, "Why did I do that?" You feel dumbest when you realize he will never call. Well, you know what? He had no intention of calling you, nor seeing you again, because, That's the way the boys are.
An army of guys does search after for nothing more than what they can get. When he accomplishes his hit in the alley or the back seat of his car, the main attraction is over and Mr. Conqueror is on to his next challenge.
One-nighters are unemotional bunches who do not care about how you feel, particularly if you made the first move. It makes it a lot easier for him to remove himself from you and to feel guiltless about the night before. After all, he believes you and he had the same intent in mind. To get it on and release the horniness.
I will let you in on something, because it had not occurred to you that night, the word commitment was not rolling around in his brain at the time. Bear in mind, practice made them very good at what they do. They practice deceiving by perfecting the talk to get what they want. Sex. It's only sex, sweetheart. A bang. A release. Adios.
So, the next time you decide to trade off sex for your deep wish to get love in return, think before you do, because random sex is the wrong way to find love.
