What is your brand of charismatic smolder? Every woman has her own unique brand of charisma. Chose which style most closely resembles yours and then exaggerate it. Also to be unpredictable change it up every once in awhile and try some of the other styles.
Kittenish
Glowing skin and pouty lips are your best assets so capitalize on them. Wear cashmere and silk. Good colors for you are pink, peach and light beige. Read a ton of romance novels and for some spice try a French Maid costume. Be coy and timid. Whisper as you touch your man. Portray innocence with a hint of that “I-want-to-be-ravished” look.
Exotic
Dramatize your features. Wear bold colors and musky perfumes, for example I like Bijan Wicked by Bijan. Wear lots of jewelry and fill your bedroom with candles. Learn some tantric sexual positions to surprise your lover. You want to be intense and dramatic.
Elegant
Show off your fine bone structure. You want to appear classy. Wear expensive-looking clothes and keep your hair simple and flowing. Long-loose curls that flow are extremely sexy. Indulge in a Swedish massage frequently. You want to exude refinement and a sense of rich luxury. Using gliding techniques when touching your lovers body and arch your long neck when offering a kiss. Be the Jackie Kennedy or Audrey Hepburn that's in you.
Sporty
Make sure to flaunt your well-tones body and fabulous muscles. Wear fitted t-shirts and jeans, or even try out some spandex. Go acrobatic and try a “love swing” and ignite your erotic imagination. Make him laugh, challenge him with everything, tempt him. Play a game of strip anything, my favorite is strip billiards. Radiate health and celebrate your body. Flaunt what you got. Be a gymnast in bed. Don't be afraid to take control and show your lover things that most woman can't or won't do.
Fiery
Accent your eyes with smoldering dark shadow and black eye liner. You want them to be fierce. Wear bold jewelry and outfits that hug your body or are kind of slinky. Wear lots of red. Red turns up the hit and makes you irresistible. Be sexy and seductive, shaking your hips to sensual music and take private trips to sex-toy shops. Be a tigress in the bedroom. Be passionate and don't be afraid to let go and let your inner fire send sparks all around you.
Smart
Let your intelligent side shine. Dress tastefully and wear the occasional quirky accent, something with a story behind it. Indulge in outlandish fantasies with your lover or with just any guy in your line of vision. Make sure to develop an enormous vocabulary of hot, sultry language to seduce your lover with. Read up on the Kama Sutra. Bring out your mans sensual side with some poetry , music or art. You want to appear mysterious and worldly.
Earthy
One word, voluptuous. Accentuate your curves and womanly body. Wear dresses that are low-cut with high heels or bare feet. This type always makes me think of the curvy mid-18 th century woman with their corsets and cleavage. Lick food from your fingers all the while locking eyes with your lover and radiating sensuality. Create a pleasure drawer or box filled with feathers, furs, and soft surprises. Be lusty and give your man plenty of smoldering glances.
Wild Woman
Leather, whips and chains. Be totally over-the-top with leather bustier, garter belts and sexy tousled bed head. Pleasure yourself on a regular basis and make your own erotic videos. Use your cell phone to send hot sexy pictures to your lover throughout the day. When in public be frisky and promise to tie your man up and bite his neck, all the while being loud enough others can hear. Be unpredictable, edgy and exude a sense of danger in your demeanor. Don't be afraid to show overly public displays of affection.
Remember to chose your charismatic style and learn everything there is about it. The more you understand it and radiate it the more irresistible you will become to your partner. I tend to fall into the Earthy style what about you?
