“So beautiful a flower, on such a bull shit.” Many persons say that beautiful ladies always accompany bad boys. This phenomenon makes us wonder: why women love bad boys?
Usually, women have something inside to defend themselves for being hurt, which is actually is a kind of worry. The bad boys are bond enough to speak out what they want to say. In order to get a woman, a bad boy would say many sweet words, which could melt the defending line of the woman. He would say “I love you” in many different ways, some of which are thought abnormal by the good boys.
The bad boy wins the heart of a lady by his offensive ways of expressing his love to the lady, and the lady is usually touched by such kind of “rudeness”. One of my friends told me that she was falling in love with a bad boy. When I asked her the reason, she simply told me that the boy was too powerful than her. She thought that there was no other guy could do that. So, she fell in love with the boy.
Too powerful? What is the meaning of what she said? I think that the bad boy had done something unusual to show that he loved her. When I was at a dancing party, I noticed a commonly regarded bad boy successfully invited a beauty to dance, by simply said, “Hi, beauty, a dance with me? Or I will carry you to the dancing floor.” A gentleman there showed hesitation to invite the lady to dance with him, so he had to watch the beauty dancing with the bad boy. I think that it is one of the reasons that a bad boy can be successful in winning the companion of a lady, while a good boy has to wait for a long to get the heart of a lady.
Bad boys usually have good skills of flirting women, and these actions make women exciting. When the women want to get to know more about the bad boys, they fall into the “traps” well designed by the bad boys for them.
Another reason is that women are sensitive in feelings but not logic. When a bad boy shows great passion to a lady, the lady usually falls the prey of the bad boy. What she cares about is passion of love, and she doesn't want to think about it clearly with logics. She doesn't want to deduce a conclusion to make a choice, but she follows her feelings.
Some women like the smell of cigars;
Some like the harsh treatment?
Not sure